Originally posted by Yunhaier:
The one? If he is the one, would you chose to see him make his best
happiest decision or forsake everything and probably chose you?
If its about friendship only, its applies as well. IF his happiest
decision is with you, then congrats. But if it doesn't, would you
be happy if you see happiness in his face?
HOWEVER
To your case, there is a little variation - he did declare his
feelings for you, Under CloUdiSm, once declaration of feelings is
made, friendship ain't 100% the same anymore. Its about not
conflicts or issues to settle, [b]its about getting used to the
mindset of looking at him/you as a friend with the thought of
knowing that you both like each other.
Before that, everything was innocent, pure, one-sided and
illusionary - Now everything was confirm.
P.S: I suspect you may be overeacting and he could be indecisive
later on. You deja vu comes from self-fulfilling prophesies - what
happen will happen again. Cease this thinking and disallow your
actions to influence you course of decision to repeat history.
Cheers [/b]
Nicely said. I have to agree.. Oh well... my philosphy of "
criticism is the best way to change oneself" do have to come in
here. I have to admit im being abit "overbearing" or overreacting.
I suppose this is the lesson to be learnt.
