Originally posted by _Riemin_:
I am deeply in love with a girl from my class...She is the
innocent type and i love everything about her.
Recently just spoke to her on the phone den we started talking abt
having feelings for people at first sight..
Den i asked her did she feel anything the first time she saw
me..she said NO...
Maybe not a big deal to anyone...but just a No from her just had my
heart breaking into pieces.
Since dat day...i have been avoiding coming home to sleep cause the
moment i lay on my bed alone...i will start thinking of her
again...and my heart starts crying again.
Maybe i sound stupid to u guys..but i love her too
much.[/list][/b]
At least U did smth which helped U. U asked her abt her feelins.
Its betta than NOT asking at all. Da feeling of being told "no"
& da feeling of NOT noeing is 2 seperate emotions. But NOT
asking is a far worse "slow poison" for U to bear. Trust me.
Perhaps at yr age where da raging hormones r in U, U shld learn how
to control it. U shld start to SEE everything ard U. Yes, at yr age
curiousity abt "love", bgr, watever, is common & normal. Such
emotions have no immediate cure for it. Only thru family guidance,
help from frens, advices from elders, good living examples, etc,
etc... will U learn wat is goin on & help U pass thru dis
period.
I have some suggestions. U can get smth to do. Play video games,
play sports, go shopping, read books, go work out, anything as long
as U keep yrself occupied. BEST is if U concentrate on yr studies.
Matters of da heart can only be eased thru time. Time is a very
GOOD medicine. So while U have dat, do something useful &
beneficial for yrself.
Oh yah... U can oso try dis. TREAT her as a fren, NOT as a gal.
Meaning U treat her as a fren like how U treat yr guy frens &
gal frens whom U dun have much feelins for. Juz dun act like a WUSS
in front of her. Be natural & throw da past away. U r walking
towards da FUTURE.
Ok? 
