Hey mate, you should just forget about her. If she did like you
NOW as in when you spoke to her, she would have the empathy to say
something like "but now... the feeling is different from when I 1st
saw you etc". But she did not did she? THus this is complete
rejection in my book, you can expect her to feel awkward with you
now, and you have no real friendship with her now.
At least U did smth which helped U. U asked her abt her
feelins. Its betta than NOT asking at all. Da feeling of being told
"no" & da feeling of NOT noeing is 2 seperate emotions. But NOT
asking is a far worse "slow poison" for U to bear. Trust
me.
I disagree, for instance, even if I have feelings for people, I
don't say it because 99% says the feeling is not mutual, as
brilliantly demonstrated by Riemin here. Let me ask you all, how
many of you loved a person and the feeling WAS mutual? Well?
Thus, if I like someone, it will just show in my actions as in I
help/talk as friends. If I spill the beans the whole friendship
thing is ruined because she will feel awkward and avoid me (Girls
avoid me anyway in general, but she will avoid me EVEN MORE). Plus
there;s the added poison of heartache.
So the rule for tough [email protected]_Arms and people like me (rare)... don't
spill it. Show it, but don't spill it, showing it will get the
message across without the awkwardness. But ofcourse don't show it
too obviously.
