Yunhaier SG So since when have I venture into yun tun mee business? Talking about Yun Tun Mee, there is this very famous stall near parklane - at Sunshine plaza, that served fried yun tun. Very nice. You should go try someday. Report my name maybe got discount.
Yunhaier SG I won't retain feelings if (2) were to happen - afterall, she is the one who wants to leave. I was taught to release in love; afterall, closing of one chapter signifies a new beginning. Cheers
Yunhaier SG In theory of appreciation in relationship, everybody belongs to three sides. (I) - Appreciation is not important. People who belongs to this category do not seek for returns at all. They do what they should from a duty of a gf/bf and seek near-perfect understanding to please their partners. Its an unwritten rule and they follow by them. They are often taken for granted. (II) - Appreciation is needed in a form of a minimal returns. Something like your credit card. You can have a bf who neglects you and you treat him rather well - the minimal returns of appreciation to you would probably be an sms saying that he loves your cooking, etc (although he may be spending his time with his buddy watching soccer and won't return until the next day). The woman can still function under this. In fact, alot people fall under this category. (III) - People who fall under this category value appreciation very much. These people could probably been under-appreciated before, or simply their ideal in love. They will do equal effort in returning appreciation and they understand this saying and practice them 'treasure what you have and whats around you.' Beware, because if you under-appreciate them - they will be dis-satisfied and could prove unseen problems and complication in the relationship. Cheers
Homebody SG (2) (1) is sad but the feeling that both shared is valuable in your life after he/she dies. This feeling will be the very thing that will be with you for the rest of your life to give you hope and optimism to live on, be it to live along or to find a new partner. Therefore (1) not as sad as (2) (2) is sadder. Unrequited love can always be dismissed to find new love. The problem lies when one cannot move on and harps on it for the rest of his/her love. That would be the saddest thing in the whole world. It's really hard to move on from someone you love and deemed as the only love in yr life.
Boxer SG Both not so sad for me la ... Unless you ask 1) if she dies when she owe me a lot of money 2) if she tells me she only love my money when I plan to spend my life with her then I would say (1) ... :p
798 SG I think number two is sadder. The only thing when a girl dumped me, I will lied to myself that she was dead (number one) to console myself. This way I will feel better.
dead_clone SG (1) imagine making lotsa plans for the future but death had to claim her at the most blissful moment... that sudden eternal loss is too much for me... (2) i'm be more than glad to know that i won't be wasting effort on someone who no longer appreciates. better to let it end before it starts to hurt more... (1) has the most impact on me...
