Originally posted by sadsadguy:
Hmm, I guess everyone thinks you double time because you broke with
your GF after you developed feelings for your friend. Since you
still love your GF, why dun you solve the problem with her instead
of just choosing to break up. If you had lost feelings for her
already, maybe its more understandable. Of course i dun mean the
case of "got new love dun want the old" kindda stuff. If you had a troubled time with your GF, broke up
and proceed in a relationship with your friend, then its very
logical.
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I think even with this reason, if he jump into another r/s.
It's doing a disservice to himself.
I see it as a motive to breakup rather then a genuine
breakup.
In other words, no difference from Zhao Tse.
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However, if you claim to love your GF, I guess you should have hold
on and work things out. Which includes measures such as distancing
from your friend.
But as usually, matters of the heart is always hard to predict and
there's never a right or wrong way of
doing things. One can only hope that he/ her actions brings
about happiness.
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There could possiblity be a right way, if one could take
some time to sit down and seriously think thru the cost of
breakup
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Anyway, all had been said and done. What had happened, had
happened. Its time to walk out and face what the future holds. In
some ways, it good being singlehood again. And who knows what the
tide may bring tomorrow. I only hope you have learnt something from
this experience.
I like this one 
