Patching with ex.. have you?

wuluman SG

well, we are facing some dilemma i suppose.. but my msg to myself... if realli there is a time when she come back to me.. ask urself if u still have any feeling anot lot.. coz when the time she come back, u mayb having another r/s but when u are into a new r/s u cannot compare to the ex... take it to heart..

in any case u still have feeling for her, ask her those qs which still making u confuse (in my case).. if u got the ans which sastify u.. think b4 making a decision..

as pple say.. a glass cup is crack, no matter how u glued it the crack is there...

AaLviNn SG

yea.. we'll see if she comes back or not in the first place, which i really doubt so, which i wish it will be today, tomorrow, ASAP.

if it takes her a few yrs to come back, then ya, i'll see the situation at that time, and make a good decision.. but then again, i know it myself, that she's hard to be replaced... thanks ( :

wuluman SG

Originally posted by AaLviNn:
yea.. we'll see [b]if she comes back or not in the first place, which i really doubt so, which i wish it will be today, tomorrow, ASAP.

if it takes her a few yrs to come back, then ya, i'll see the situation at that time, and make a good decision.. but then again, i know it myself, that she's hard to be replaced... thanks ( :[/b]

well,dont pin too much hope and get on with ur own life like wad i am doing now... if realli there is a ger in the future who u really love..well isnt she the one who replace ur ex alreadi?

take your time.. love does not come so fast.. enjoy the advantage of being single... Laughing do wadeva as u like..

onli time will heal, but not ur heart until a real love have replace it..

cHeR|sH^LoVe SG

ya.. i have.. patch break.. patch break.. sometimes.. is a few days.. sometimes is a year.. den patch.. but.. patch break to much.. will feel numb wan.. Sad

AaLviNn SG

I dunno how long I will take to let go.. actually my heart doesn't want to let go. Seemed like my heart has closed its doors, and only 1 person has the key... I'm so used to her calling me a few times a day, just to check if each other's ok.. so I'll feel like sh.it a few times a day as well.. this feeling comes and goes.

This love, was so true, and so deep. sigh. Wonder how is she now. \=

Farahney SG

Sigh....We have similarity AaLviNn........ Sad

AaLviNn SG

Sighhhhhhhhh… u take care dudette

tOoTy`gEr SG

haiz.. i`ve broke up with my ex.. during tT time, i`ve another bf. but i juz couldn`t 4get my ex.. Sad no matter wad i`m doing, where i am, he`s alwaes in my mind.. therefore, i`m veri sorry to my bf. one mth after our breakup with my ex, he asked mi out.. n i went. it was like a seminar held n after tT we juz took a stroll. Neutral he xpressed his feelings 4 mi n initial a patch.. i can`t.. although i wanted veri much.. so im in a dilema for a few wks. Confused

one day, my bf ask 4 a breakup.. i wasn`t shock. coz i noe tT i`ve neglect him too much.. too much.. e onli word i can say is "sorry". not long after tT, i patch with my ex. i gave him n myself a chance.. but who noes...... 1+mth after patching, he broke up wif mi. i was crying like hell.. Crying or Very sad

i thot tis will b e end of us.. he dun love mi at all.. wad i could do everydae was nothing but cry... when we were together, he did not treat mi well. haiz.. so i kept tinking y he wanted a patch in e 1st place.. Sad

he asked 4 a patch again.. n tis time, i took alot of determination to agree.. coz im veri scare tT he'll broke up wif mi again. till now.. we`ve been together for 9mthz. Wink

hmm.. although i don`t quite understand ur situation.. gd luck to u. Smile take care.

AaLviNn SG

i don't want to get into another r/s so soon, cos i know i'll just be treating her as a substitute, and it won't be easy to replace her with someone else i will truly love again.

from what i think, she's enjoying each n everyday since the breakup. enjoying her time in sch, time with her new bf.. thinking of it sometimes makes me envious, but there's nothing i can do to stop thinking. the thoughts just come.

for almost 2 weeks already, i have problem sleeping. its like not sleeping at all. throughout the night my dreams of her never ends, and when i wake up, facing the reality again, its very difficult. my brain doesn't even want to rest, and i'm very worn out mentally. so helpless...

i dun even noe wad she's doing, is she alrite... just can't stop worrying. and this worrying in the day causes my dreams to appear in the night, so basically she is on my mind 24hrs a day. i am very tired, very very tired. its like my life is slowly fading away. i don't think i can take this torture for much longer.

tOoTy`gEr SG

hAix. ur situation is exactly e same as my fren.. both of u are veri nice guyz.. Neutral hope u can widen ur circle of frenz. there'll b one ger truly waiting 4 u.. so don`t give up searching......

AaLviNn SG

if i'm nice, she wouldn't have chosen another boy already.. maybe i have too many friends, too little good friends, that's why i'm unable to find ppl to talk these stuff to.. anyway thank you, for ur kind words..

u noe, during these 3 weeks after the breakup, sometimes i keep myself busy by doing something, my mind will like "the last time i did this... she was still with me". siGh.. )`:

Farahney SG

And you too Wink

AaLviNn SG

Last night sucks. She haven't been home for 2 days. She wasn't like this last time. I am still so worried, but nothing I can do. I can't call her, can't sms.

By right its not even my problem anymore, whether she's ok or not, but I just can't help worrying... worry what that guy will do to her, cos the impression that guy gave me - let just say it ain't so good.

But God answered my prayers. I had a nice sleep w/o dreaming of her finally.

boy in blues SG

yup..i know what you mean..there's a very real danger in loving someone too much..once you lose her..there goes your life..but you need to assess your chances under such circumstances..if you deem them remote..better don't dwell in it..right now, she's the only girl you've ever known..your troubles can only be solved after someone else occupies that vacancy.

AaLviNn SG

that’s what i thought to myself. but not so soon, probably a few years? because she still holds the biggest portion of my heart.. like 99% of it, 1% for myself. so wadever i do, it revolves around her, but i didn’t know how to tell her tat, so probably she didn’t know either.

GHoST_18 SG

Shi qu de zhong shi zhui hao...

Crying or Very sad

GHoST_18 SG

Shi qu de zhong shi zhui hao...

Crying or Very sad

dreamer81$ SG

i prefer saying that we wouldn't like to swallow the phlem right after we've spit right? its disguisting.......

the Bear SG

what the hell do you think you are? a goddamned horse?

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