Originally posted by Yunhaier:
You mentioned two criticial point above and I
highlighted it. I labelled them point (I) and (II)
consecutively.
I) Lost her feelings - there are two types of people when it comes
to losing feelings. The first type are those who lose easily and is
able to regain back as quickly. The second type is those who don't
lose it easily, but once they lose it, its gone forever. 
Understanding which type of girl your ex is would prove very
important and give clue about how great or slim your chances of
getting her is.
II) Make her love me - You CAN'T MAKE people love you. Love is free
will and because its free will - you can only influence and hope
for the best. In the end, it revert back to point (I) about your
chances.
P.S: Sometimes when love is lost - do not panic, cry out for your
longing and determined to recover the relationship. Its wise to
understand and ponder over the reason and background of why you
have lost it - afterall, everything happens for a reason.
[b]Knowing why you have lost, is more important than salvaging a
relationship without realising why you have lost it prior
before. Because if you don't......
...... chances are, you will lose this relationship again.
Cheers [/b]
last time we broke off b4, but it's just one day affair, i talk
to her lots of things then she was back to me again. but at time
she will be veli metal teeth......
she is a kind of woman who keep thing to herself, i try digging out
the problem, but she kept say she will forget the problem, but when
thing happen again, she will bring out the past and shoot me
again
