No one said recovering from a heartache is easy... yet no one
said it's impossible as well.
Like what Alvin mentioned, if you have any pent up feelings, please
go ahead and release them. There's no law stating that guys cant
cry. 
Cry if
you have to, wipe your tears and life goes on. If you have to feel
vulnerable, yes then it's what you have to feel for the time being.
Then hibernate for a period, when you're done with that, you'll
come out to be a better and stronger person.
You are not alone and it's a fact. Many people suffer from
heartaches, and yes life has to go on no matter what happens becoz
The world doesnt
stop revolving becoz of one person.
Talk it out if you cannot handle. It's always better than keeping
it within yourself. Having someone with you to listen through even
though no solutions can be found will be better than you fighting
that battle alone.
Know that once you start to get swallowed in self-pity, everything
halts. You won't want her to call you a 'whim' and one who cannot
survive without her. All the more you have to lead a life better
without her, becoz before she made the entrance into your life, you
did fine and well. So why should there be any difference now that
she's gone? If everything has to be back at ground zero then please
jolly well make it a better one than before.
Be positive, this mindset can last you through difficult
times.
Of coz, not forgetting one of my fav quote
Tough times don't last, Tough people
do
You'll be well.... Help us by helping yourself.
Cheerz...
