Yunhaier SG Another great hint you subconsciously drop upon your post: Your current bf is possessive while he understand the importance of personal space and freedom. You crave to release yourself. You are comparing. Why compare and contrast? You are not satisfied deep inside. You mentioned that you wanted the best of both world - it goes to show that you don't even know what you want yourself. How can you be satisfied when, in the first place, you don't even know what you are seeking? Be kind to yourself; allow some time to rest and enjoy what the world has to offer meanwhile. Thinking too much of mundane issues can only lead to unneccessary conclusion that has no stand of its own. Cheers
Angelz_ger SG Hmm..thanks for all the advise.. I guess i know wad's my nxt step.. All ur posts realli made me think alot..
T-711 SG did i helped u? hahahahha. yunhaier is a good help! cheers to u and all the best in the days to come. good luck~
InVaa SG care to tell us ur decision? n results? but i can see tt the “guy” really loves u n is prepared to accept u in his arm.. lol
Angelz_ger SG Hmmm.. I felt that wad Yunhaier said it's quite true..guess i have been living in the past..and my lonliness did create a vaccum in me, thus making me crave for J more. It's true that if i dun take the chance with him..i might regret and keeping looking back on the past, i think thru it..and i felt like..i'm like being hold back by the past..i wonder if the way i'm feeling for him it's juz something of my imagination or created in my memories of the past.. Even if those words that he said sound as if he likes me alot and would be juz happy to see my smile..maybe he juz meant to be friendly..maybe to show that he cares for me..as a friend.. And it's very unfair to my bf..i choose to be with him..i ought to be responsible/accountable to him..not juz leave him for some fantasy of mine rite?..i'm sure most of u will say..it's also unfair to him..when i'm with him and thinking of J..but i do love him..and have thot thru quite clearly about wad i realli wan... But to some extend..i still doubt my commitment..i failed my expectation of myself..lOlx.. Thanks for all the advise..maybe more advice shld be posted..to help those who may be in the same situation..heehee..thanks again for the great help..realli help me alot..Xie xiE..
T-711 SG its expected that when ur bf in the ns and did not spend enough time with u, u tend to feel lonely and hence the J chaos. u should move forward instead of back tracking. be sure of what u really want and be firm in ur decision. but since u have chosen this bf u should stay with him unless the lovey dovey feeling gone. matters of the heart are complicated and not all can stay that loyal to their partners. its part and parcel of life. maybe when u are more matured and really sure what u really wanted then u can really settle down. i would say 17 is still young so take ur time in this matters of the heart. be careful of getting ur fingers burnt. heh heh. good luck to u!
Yunhaier SG Not really. You think alot - just that the ideas are scattered like sands, making it seemed like a wide scope of option to chose and ideas to ponder. I merely guide the direction to your thoughts. Eventually you will seek the answer you want. I wish you well. Cheers
T-711 SG Yunhaier i can say u expressed well and u are pretty enlighten in this matters. ur pts are logical and touch on areas i previously nv think abt. haha i learnt from all this posts as well~~~
T-711 SG /me want more!!! wah yunhaier very good very powerful very pro... erm still got what? have a nice day!!
