Please give me some good advise!

last SG · 2003-04-26T17:13:27+00:00

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reallieRAW SG

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Im reading so much & thks for the 'entertainment' but watz ur qn or the help u need?

1st of all, I cant sympathize with Joyce, not at all. Sleeping ard with fenz & defending her acts in tt manner.....well, I cant agree. Tt's her desserts. I supposed u r not in love with her, r u?!? Rolling Eyes

As for Alan, Im puzzled, he's the big-mouth but not involved in the piture after all the shit tt had happened.....bravo man.

Greg & Dan, let them fight over Joyce lor. I dun see watz the attraction besides an easy target Neutral

Tt gangster dad ah, u r not even sure wat he did to Joyce, so dun speculate so much. Maybe juz a threaten inside the room with Joyce?

Then u leh. Being loyal to frenz is gd but only when they want help & r able to help themselves also. Eveyone heckcare already, wat do u wanna do ah?

Imperfect SG

I think Leo is considered as a sign of loyal friend...

@lvin SG

from what i hear from u.. i think she just a bitch…. sleep with 1 guy aft another.. y shd u help this kinda girl?.. maybe u just bed her she wld be fine loh… pls don’t tell me she goes to bed with them becuase she loved them…... if tt’s the case she seems to love so many guys in such a short time…. anyway she’s not a good girl, not even near…. let her choose her life as she wishes….. pity her cuase she got rape?.... if it’s a good n nice girl got rape i wld pity… but nope..not her….. anyway tt guy’s father is a bastard too….

iori8888 SG

Shocked Erm... did the back part of this disappeared.... they write 42 replies but I only see 22... and those I just read and replied few hours ago I dont see them

iori8888 SG

Hmm… funny… now i don’t even see the thing i just posted… I only see the max of page 2 and Yunhaier’s yesterday reply…

laken SG

the main water is the alan..
if he dun say anything to dan's dad..then dan's dad wouldn't pressure dan to chase back joyce...
so i think joyce is the root..
and alan is the water..(kinda backstabber)
i guess..

SunRisE SG

hmmm.. loyal friend? dun think so... but then from what iori posted and what he says.. doesn't sound like a LEO at all.. BUt well after all he's a saggitarus

Angel^_^ SG

hmm..
i think tt alan hv a big-mouth..which will really bring harms to others..rumours kill..tt's how "ruan lin yu" (think i spell it correct..)died..well..if it's not yr business..keep yr mouth shut..watever u hear..juz let the other side of yr ear cum out loh..juz like when yr mom nag..nag..nag at you..listen one side..the other side let those words flow loh..
as for joyce..well..she shouldn't be Zzz ard..and when things happened..giving lame excuses..after pleasures..den still wanna to hv a good reputation? tt's hard man~dun think she's a victim..if she's really one..why she agreed to hv sex wif Dan and petting wif Gerg? And there's no prove tt she's being force to hv sex wif Dan's dad..remember..rumours kill..so get the truth before u say anything..be fair to them..
as for Dan..well.."ear too light"..listen to wat Alan and his Dad's words..den angry for wat? aiyo..in the first place not BGR wif Joyce mah..wat for angry? bcoz of "face"? hmm..worth it?
well..Gerg..next time think carefully before u say anything..play wif yr words..the way u put it..well..not nice loh..
triple D..( Dear Dan's Dad )..dunno wat to say abt u..well..suspected of raping a girl..well..should noe mah..rumours kill..u might wanna to hv a private conversation wif joyce..but why ask her over to hv a drink den go to a room? no matter..can't conclude anything..no prove yet mah..
as for u..sweetie..dun think too much..as long as u think u'd done yr part..tt's enough..u did gave them advice..concern..if they dun care abt u..well..put a stop loh..they can't blame u in the future..so..dun brood over it..cheer~ remember..u juz THINK tt triple D might hv sex wif joyce..ONLY think..so..dun be biased in watever u say and think..dun jump to conclusion..remember..rumours kill..dun be another Alan.. O=)

iori8888 SG

She told Greg that what his Dan's dad done to her, but he say she want him to keep it a secret so he didn't tell me. He only said, "I just want to let you know she tell me already, but I'm not surppose to tell you. All I can say is he's a real bastard. Don't ask me anymore."

reallieRAW SG

Hi...im back at ur thread, hoping tt my reply wont be deleted away again Neutral

Watz ur main concern now? To solve wat & to seek wat can of advice?

Angel^_^ SG

oh dear..tt triple D..well..guess tt most of the ppl will say.."she can reject one mah..can report to police.." well..like wat u say..triple D's reputation very high..joyce might be scare to do anything..but the thingy is..watcha gotten do? involved in it? i mean..wanna to help her?

Klactovak SG

iori8888 !

I'm very detached from this thing. Slap your friend Joyce a little bit first.

First off - She's asking for it. Sleeping around with Greg yet she's a victim. That has been said a few hundred times so I'll let it go.

Now, the solutions to the different scenarios -

Dan and Greg - Get them together and talk it out like Real Gentleman. If 13 years of friendship cannot withstand this test then FORGET the whole thing. It's NOT worth it at all. Ask them to find new friends and STOP patching them up. It will not work. Trust me, I've been through this "friendship-nonsense" before. Big Deal!!!

Joyce - Ask her to stop being silly. Wake up her dumb idea. If she has been violated and decides not to do anything. Maybe she's too dumb to do anything. Live with it. Let her personal Knight-in-Shining-Armour save her. It's too much problem.

Alan - should be stripped naked and photographed to keep his mouth shut. Alternatively, he could be ignored. He's a nosy fellow. He IS the cause of the whole problem. So if anything.... he should be punished.

Dan's Dad - Oh well..... if you guys are afraid then leave him alone. No one is above the Law, Not Even if he's Bruce Lee or Arnold Schwarzenegger. Leave it to Joyce if she wants to report him or not. If he tries anything funny again.... well, it all depends on Joyce herself. She might end up marrying Dan's Dad and become the Boss lady. Rolling Eyes She will become Dan's step-mother and Alan's auntie. Har har har har.... then she can kick them around. Duh!!!

Enough said.

Angel^_^ SG

Shocked Confused Rolling Eyes Wink Smile Very Happy Laughing

Klactovak SG

Ey, Angel. You like the solutions??

Angel^_^ SG

hmm..well..ok lah..i feel tt it's well-said..but the thingy is..wat iori8888 intend to do..it does hurt to see her frenz like tt loh..

iori8888 SG

Laughing I Agree! I hope he get aids... He's in 30-40s and he played with all foreign china students...

As for Joyce... Don't frighten me like that leh... She's quite a "Uncle killer you know? Even uncles come and know her all... Now she quite close to his father's friend... Another uncle... He call her gan mei and she call him gan ge... (Just because he give her some things for free... well that's what I think)

If I know what to do I won't post all this liao lor...

Im now making her stay away from them as much as possible by making her help me with me schoolwork for myself also lar

coverboy17 SG

Iori..i can tell u are a great friend and they r indeed very lucky to have u around.btw,just curious...how old are all of them? maybe this can help to determine further conclusions. Rolling Eyes

ChinpiraX SG

hmm what to do leh ? unless u are in wat tong simi lanjiao tong neh neh tong then you can take the matter into your own hands and teach dan's dad a lesson he will never forget....ambushed and beat up dan's dad ONLI when he is alone...you can do it to...take a chopper and chop chop off his kuku ------>learnt from pubosai ah ma xiao longnu CHOP CHOP CHOP
hahaha then seriously speaking dun mix with the two bastards dan and his dad....simi lanjiao tong his dad frm?you speak as if his dad is frm hei shou tang or yakuza singapore gangs small fries okay
we dun need to give a fark about them
i called 999 biggest gang in singapore man in blues kick ass
cannot solve call 999 NOT 369

call police and arrest dan's dad he is a menace...like we chinese says ni zhuo chu yi wo zhuo shi wu...play tongs sumore arrest him
dun need to give dan face break then break loh this friendship not worth preserving.... Greg is just a brainless guy who talk big, this type of friend can carry on mixing with....he is harmless...

ChinpiraX SG

btw how joyce look like?
can make it or not ?
scarly cannot make it so many stupid men fighting for her "luv"
hahaha

maybe she is a da meiren thats why

oh yar ur story damn farking long i miss out alan
that motomouth i also suggested you to stop be friends with him
lousy backstabbing turtle
rumours and shits come out frm his mouth worthed more than ur friendship with him break off
break off clean with dan, dan's cannot make it lao tiko ah beng cum rapist father and motormouthed alan

for greg you can carry on be friends with him
aso advise him to stop seeing those three farkers

as for that slut named joyce
recommend her a nice place to work geylang
changi aso not bad she can definitely beat those ah kuas!

cheers bro! dun worri be happy
my two cents of advice

firefly SG

A girl got to learn to protect herself..as simple as tat.
And be responsible for own deeds...
You reap wat you sow...

sound harsh...

But realli she have to learn to protect herself.. you wont be there for her always... even she dun meet with the present "baddies", she will meet others in the near future... so does tat mean she have to be taken advantage of again? No obviously... so its up to her...

But this incident is dramatic lor.. act life can be simple.. we r the director of our own life...

Rolling Eyes

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