got a tanky problem

M©+square SG

Sometimes, it's man who gave themselves up and chose to leave the girl this way.
(not implying to this case, but there are cases in which guys gave up and lose a r/s)

winky SG

really no chance trying to win him over is it? Sad Sad Sad

Yunhaier SG

You wished him to love you, without the lust thing getting in the picture. It works only if the lust thing doesn't get into the picture. The both of you were together once - you made a mistake. There is no more turning back because the fact is that this mistake did happen. Rolling Eyes

Grow and learn from this: So that future relationship will be better than to linger with this meaningless guy.

Most of the time, regret can't be replaced by future actions - it just remain there like a cracked vase. Well, if regret can be undone - it wouldn't be called regrets isn't it? Rolling Eyes

Cheers

winky SG

i think tis is going to be the last update. my ex came over to my place just now. we had sex. finish already he went off. okie, i know exactly what you gonna say, that i made a big mistake. but then i agree to have it with him then he told me that its going to be a purely sexual relationship. so, i finish off the deal with him and that is the end.

anymore pursue from him to have another more rounds will be ignored by me.

i am truely heart broke. 3 years of relationship now turn into a free sex session. i am going to muster as much courage and strength to move on.

Syusaku SG

pat pat..

truly time to move on...

but are u sure the guy who's chasing after u wun mind all this?

winky SG

who says you need to tell everybody everything?
i know i'm wrong, i just want a chance. everybody needs a second chance somewhere in their life. if he mind i also got no choice. its my fault what. all i can do is wait for another guy lor.

Honeybunz SG

that's very true. I agree with you, cuz I also like that.

jeramy SG

did you have sex with him when you 2 were together?

winky SG

you mean my ex bf?
yeah, we did. why?

Yunhaier SG

Foolish... foolish...foolish.... such a foolish girl. Evil or Very Mad

I TOLD YOU before in my prior post: You think by giving yourself to him = trying to make your guilt feel better - let me tell you this: misery is arriving. In his eyes, in his heart where his soul stands - you ain't longer this ex, your category stands nowhere better than any girl people pick from the bar. Rolling Eyes

Finish it up with a pure sexual encounter? WHY FINISH IT UP? ISN'T IT ALREADY FINISH YEARS AGO? Your guilt! YOUR guilt! You think in the end you will be satisfied? Guilt will accumulate and you will never feel better. Evil or Very Mad

You already know he is such a bastard and you agreed to his jerk acts - my heart feels for you. Because your naive nature is being taken advantage and you willing let him. Chronologically, if are young then experience would be your teacher - if not, open your eyes to the real world - the cunning nature of men. Rolling Eyes

When the both of you kissed just now - what was your mind thinking? Confusions right? And you know what was he thinking? Trying to release his steam at the expense of you. Evil or Very Mad

Know when you were young and how you love to possess this toy and did all your can to cry to your parents and persuade to buy for you? And then after when you had your own share of fun, you dump it at a corner and is no longer interested in it? Rolling Eyes

I know what I am saying meant nothing to you because all these all just plains words from the internet... from the forum. If you were my friend, and if I had any chance to speak to you on the phone, I would have talk the hell out of myself to dissuade you. I am surprised that none of your friends did anything firmly (or is it you never let them to?) Rolling Eyes

Well, its the path you choose to take. Life goes on, however things will never be the same again.

P.S: 'anymore pursue from him to have another more rounds will be ignored by me' - trust me: he wouldn't anymore.

Cheers (Exit with a heavy heart)

winky SG

i know i'm foolish. sorry. but i can't help not to try. really trueful sorry to myself too. Crying or Very sad

yes, things will not be the same again. maybe to him, i'm loose, i'm just another girl he picks at a club. i dun give a shit to what he thinks about me anymore. to me, there is nothing more i want from him, no more thoughts of being together anymore.

in fact now, i kinda despite him, and his manner of ways. i will stop posting about him now. i want to erase him off.

Yunhaier SG

Zao zi jin ri, he bi dang chu. I am firm with my words and choose not to slacken da strength of it because I knew you will regret. Haiz... when a strangers tells you something and nags at you - there is a reason why and he wants to enlighten you about it - well, its your own relationship karma that you have to go through, my words serve little purpose too. Rolling Eyes

Learn from your past, lady. I wish you well.

Cheers

loneryu00 SG

I support Yun's side... & I no mood to crap anymore to U... LEARN from dis experience. When U posted wat U did... I was disappointed, utterly... BUT its yr decision... muz respect dat... Good Luck.

M©+square SG

Originally posted by winky:

i know i'm foolish. sorry. but i can't help not to try. really trueful sorry to myself too. Crying or Very sad

yes, things will not be the same again. maybe to him, i'm loose, i'm just another girl he picks at a club. i dun give a shit to what he thinks about me anymore. to me, there is nothing more i want from him, no more thoughts of being together anymore.

in fact now, i kinda despite him, and his manner of ways. i will stop posting about him now. i want to erase him off.

I'll see if you'll keep to it. Neutral

reallieRAW SG

winky winky again Rolling Eyes ,

Seriously speaking, there r 2 sides of us taking control of r/ship. The rational side of us & the emotional side of us. Rationally, you've made urself quite clear tt he is after sex only & you DO NOT WANT a sexual r/ship but a BGR. Is tt clear? YES.

Emotionally, you feel tt u r still in love with him. I'll ask u to calm down to think abt it. Do you want to love someone who cant love you for who u r but only someone lusting after your body? That is not love, he only wants a clean sex & making use of your feelings to satisfy his needs. Wat abt u? Some prostitute who is FOC? NO. You r emotionally-attached to him, tt's why. It's been a r/ship of 3-yrs, so who wldnt be emotionally-attached unless you havent been serious in it or given up on the r/ship already. I'm answering this for you, why dun u try answering for him? He is no longer emotionally-attached to u but physically-inclined, so he is either not serious enuff or have given up on the r/ship already. *Shaking winky vigorously*

Btw, this is a tip from all who recovered after ending their r/ships
It is often not the person you are in love with when you cant seem to let go of the rhip so easily. It's the memories both of you have shared tt is unforgettable, no the person.

loneryu00 SG

Originally posted by reallieRAW:
winky winky again ,

Seriously speaking, there r 2 sides of us taking control of r/ship. The rational side of us & the emotional side of us. Rationally, you've made urself quite clear tt he is after sex only & you DO NOT WANT a sexual r/ship but a BGR. Is tt clear? [b]YES.

Emotionally, you feel tt u r still in love with him. I'll ask u to calm down to think abt it. Do you want to love someone who cant love you for who u r but only someone lusting after your body? That is not love, he only wants a clean sex & making use of your feelings to satisfy his needs. Wat abt u? Some prostitute who is FOC? NO. You r emotionally-attached to him, tt's why. It's been a r/ship of 3-yrs, so who wldnt be emotionally-attached unless you havent been serious in it or given up on the r/ship already. I'm answering this for you, why dun u try answering for him? He is no longer emotionally-attached to u but physically-inclined, so he is either not serious enuff or have given up on the r/ship already. *Shaking winky vigorously*

Btw, this is a tip from all who recovered after ending their r/ships
It is often not the person you are in love with when you cant seem to let go of the rhip so easily. It's the memories both of you have shared tt is unforgettable, no the person.[/b]

Mr. Green
Wow... how true... lucky I not in 1... yet... BTW I married liao... to my VIDEO GAMES!!! can concentrate there... Wink Laughing

Devil1976 SG

It's not surprising at all that you would love your EX more than the other guy... Afterall, both of you have been in a BGR for 3 years...?

Like many have suggested here, when a relationship is OVER.. Chances ARE, you won't wanna bring them BACK without VERY VREY GOOD REASONS....

Likelihood of the guy just lusting after you is HIGH based on a SURFACE ANALYSIS.

Whatever has happened, it's BETTER that ya learn to let go for your situation.... Mistakes that you've made in your previous relationship? Try to LEARN from them and not commit them in your next relationship....?

Regards....

Honeybunz SG

Winky, there WAS a reason why both of you broke off. So why waiting for your ex? Likely, both of you will break off again for the same reason. I know this is very frank (so sorry Sad ) but girls have only that few years of being young. So don't waste your time.

Devil1976 SG

Rolling Eyes

Honeybunz SG

winky,
how are you feeling now?
still bothered by your ex?

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