Am i unreasonable?

last SG · 2003-03-14T11:53:40+00:00

i noticed smtng on ur head....a pile of sh!+...din u realised dat she just crawled onto u and sh!+?

Transmission SG

Moral of the Story:
buy 2 TV and 2 Computer
Done...

loneryu00 SG

I have 2 coms n 4 Tvs... but my bro wanted to come to my room to watch "La Pi Xiao Sin"...!?

Both of U ARE at fault: she for "multi-tasking" & U for shouting "harsh" words at her... There is always a "give & take" situation. U can try dis, "She can play com + watch tv, but then she have to treat U to snacks lah..." or "she can play & watch, but next dae she can only play while U watch & vice versa..."

Or have U ever tried to L00K at her playin com while watching TV? There maybe some funny or memoriable things abt her? Her behaviour at dat time, da wae she shift her eyes btwn Tv & com, etc, etc...

Who noes? maybe U like it when she does dat, even if U cannot get to watch TV...
Confused

M©+square SG

Hmm...just apologise to her first.

Yet be firm and tell her that you have your limits too.
Talk things out in a hearty manner....it'll be helpful. Razz

curad SG

how’s everything?

sgboy2004 SG

u hav gone into a different phase of a r/s... no longer are u and her in the honeymoon phase... it is now in the phase to recognise each other's short-coming... and come to terms with it.

It is common tat temper will flare... but control lor...control....

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i am a gentleman

curad SG

wah seh u noe quite alot huh mr buaya?????

M©+square SG

Hieee!!

curad SG

hihi,i've sent a pte msg 2 u.............actually yest tried 2 send pte but cannot so type in the topic tt say duno 4get wat liao....

Malbordus SG

if u tink playing the comp n watching tv at the same time is unreasonable (i tink it is anyway), u shld haf said it the first time. if u didnt make any sound, den it shows that u dun mind, of cos she wouldnt tink twice abt requesting the same thing again. now u suddenly want to take something away frm her... of cos she angry lah...

it's like everytime u ta pao chicken rice, the uncle will put in plastic bag for you. it's the norm already. then one fine day he suddenly say "put in plastic bag yrself". although u dun mind putting it in yrself, but suddenly somebody takes something away from u, u will still grumble a little.

then now imagine the uncle not only ask u to put in plastic bag yrself, but say it in an impolite manner.

wats the first thing that comes to your mind? the first thing that comes to mine is "what haf i done to piss him off so much that he wants to take away a privilege from me?"

sgboy2004 SG

Mr. Green

howdy u curad... buaya-ed any ger gers these few days...

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i am a gentleman

curad SG

it's true but his gf shld give n take not always wanting 2 have the best of both worlds?in this case both parties r at fault,he did not tell her everything properly in the 1st place,whreas his gf shld not always want 2 watch the tv n use the com at the same time n even ask him 2 go n slp..wat's the emaning of tt...mi as a gal feels tt she's very unreasonable...........

curad SG

yaya now got chance buaya as many as u can hor...2 many darlings liao u.........haha

sugardaddy SG

watch your words lor but she is really unreasonable!!! Ticking her off might do some help!!!

loneryu00 SG

Me slow.... dun get da conversation btwn Curad & frens...
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curad SG

haha wat u duno?

Devil1976 SG

If there's any situation which you feel that you're unhappy about with her (especially the ones which you feel that are getting out of hands), you should try talking to her about it... If you wait till your arteries are about to burst then you're willing to take actions, you'll just have to face the 'music'.....

Loving her does not mean giving in to all her unreasonable demands... Doing so would only deteriorates your relationship on the long run and make both of you SUFFER..... Let her understand that you're doing so for the sake of keeping your relationship alive and hope that she'll understand...?

blue_kelvinsg SG

I'm YOUR BOSS !! Cool

yahoo.com SG

THANKS to all for ur different views. really made me look at things from different angles. yesterday nite had a talk with her. she says wont touch my com again then i told her not to be so foolish.. .but its up to her. then she gave me her point of view. say that when my mum watch tv n me play com she also left in the same kinda situation of doin nothing but she dun complain. then only i felt very sad that i hurt her with my words.
i think sgboy said something that is very true.. now is no more honeymoon... now is the period to handle each others shortcomings. i will look into that perspective from now onwards and try to be more tolerable and obliging.(am i making a mistake here?). The bad part is that i m not goin to meet her till about monday coz she already made plans to go out with her frenz much earlier in the week. so this arguement between us could not have come at a much better time.. Crying or Very sad Anyway we are on talking terms again.. she called me to check up on me if i was back safely from my trip to our neighbouring country to have some fun(shopping etc) with my frenz. now i can just stay at home(or go out) and hope for monday to come by asap.

curad SG

it's gd...btw how long have u been wif each other?

yahoo.com SG

hmm..together for about a year

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