I think, when a person is young and penis is not circumcised the
head might not expose, but normally you know the guys will start
m...brate and after having regular sex, this problem should not
have. I remember in my teenage I used to have the forskin opening
problem, you can use a crude way of using lubricant like oil and
m..brate (which is not good if you do too often) or when you have a
partner and have regular sex this problem will disappear.
Personally, I think it is not necessary to circumcise just because
it does not open completely.
This is not a professional openion and just from experience.
Best of luck and wish u the best.
Yes, I agree that when a guy is young, the foreskin will not
pull back, and as a guy masturbates, it graudually does, but
soemtimes in certain people, they have phimosis - tightness of
foreskin. I didn't have a foreskin problem cause I forcible pulled
mine back when I was oung. I still remembered it. I was in sec sch
and I was still experimenting. So I pulled back the foreskin to see
my glans and it felt good, so, I tugged more on it and it felt
better (It was kinda stuck at the sidest point of the penis). as a
result, I kept tugging until suddenly there was a brief pain and
the whole skin just went behind the glans, even so, I still kep
pulling until I realised that it won't go back any further.
And I'm going for circumcision not because of this problem, I am
going for it cause I choose to have a cleaner and smoother glans
and one that looks better.
I went to a private urologist last time to ask about
circumcision cuz when I was doing it with my ex-gf, I couldn't do
full penetration cuz it hurts. I thought it was because my frenulum
was too short. Wanted to either snip off the frenulum (like what
some male porn actors do) or go for circumcision. The doctor said
that circumsion will not help.
Analogy: you have a shirt with very long sleeves (uncircumscised
foreskin). We can roll up our sleeves so that our hands are exposed
(pull back the skin until "turtle head" is exposed). Circumcision
will only cut of the sleeves of the shirt (the extra foreskin) so
that our hands (the "turtle head" is permanently exposed. No
tampering of the frenulum at all (iirc).
The frenulum is a very sensative piece of nerve and doing anything
(un-natural less accidental) to it may disrupt your sex life. If
you feel that your frenulum is short, it's advisable to keep
pulling back your foreskin to stretch the frenulum whenever you are
taking a bath. And circumcision will mean that your "turtle head"
will be permantly exposed and constantly rubbing onto your
underwear, thus decreasing it's sensativeness which may somehow
affect your sex life too. Can be good or bad depending on the way
you look at it.
Personally, only start considering to go for a circumcision if the
extra foreskin pose a problem to your sex live.
Must I REALLY need one?
Hmm, I hope you're aware that some doctors DO NOT CUT OFF THE
FRENULUM. The frenulum cutting is an option for the doctor. I'm not
sure why most do cut it off but I think it's because too much
rubbing on it may cause you to keep having erections. If you
referred to eagle's post on wiki, yes, the frenulum is cut
off.
As for the rubbing, it is just temporary, yes it will be
desensitised but, if it's too sensitive, it will cause premature
ejaculation. And as you are intact, your glans is usually moist and
might smell if not washed properly. A circumcised glans will not
smell, nor will it be moist, it's smooth, clean and dry.
The foreskin does not pose to problem to my life. It's just that
from a POV of fashion, I feel that penises without foreskins look
better. As for pragmatism, I also feel that it is practical to go
without the foreskin. I mean, my foreskin has been retracted
continuously for about 2 weeks! I taped it back to ensure that I
wont feel uncomfortable when I get circumcised!
Hence, I really do want to cut off the foreskin. To share a bit of
news with you, I even attempted to cut it off myself and it was
disastrous.
