DarkMatter SG I have know some of my friends are wife beaters. and some like to do sexual torture a.k.a sm. My question is what is the difference between wife beaters and sm for example: Wife beaters = punching (including private parts) sm = torturing (including private parts) so significantly, there ain't any difference if it involves the women's private parts. and my friend was telling me it is obviously different but i cant seem to know how.
Keii SG imo. wife beaters are just people who are sad and emotionally unstable. while those s/m crap, are people with fetish, who does it for enjoyment. that's the only difference i can see though.
Kuali Baba SG BDSM is consensual and personal limits are to be respected. That is not the case in spousal abuse.
mamamamama SG guys who beat their spouses are bastards. guys who use SM to torture their spouses are horny bastards.
DarkMatter SG And what if sm beyond personal limits and is force on the women. is that consider as abuse?
DarkMatter SG I sort of get it. Example in a senerio where a guy punches his girlfriend's private parts (be it boob, pu$$y or stomach) to vend anger is consider as abuse. if he punches his girlfriend's private parts for enjoyment = sm. correct me if i am wrong.
Urroh SG Good comparision.. Anyway Man who beat woman are not man. There alot of SM.. there no need to bean women's private parts..
pokkagreentea SG there's also no need to beat a woman. If hit in the stomach then the woman cannot become pregnant, how?
mamamamama SG what about beating of butches aka bungs(dunno whether spell correct or not)? since they wanna act man, i say we treat them like one.
DriftingGuy SG At any point during the act: If the partner is willing then its SM. If the partner is unwilling its abuse.
Chuichi Koshiramaru SG In SM, first of all, do their wives enjoy it? I think some really do but what about those who don’t? Shouldn’t be considered abuse if it is forced SM?
printer SG Violence means there’s a victim involved,if it’s SM,if the woman feels shiok,you think she’s a victim?
angelza SG A man abusing woman is like an older kid bullying the young one. its absolutely sickening and these babaric man, are worst than pigs. and i'm aware they usually get shit in jail for such crimes. regards, angelza.com
DarkMatter SG Now this is a tricky part. If a man sexually tortures a women and she claims to be willingly or even enjoy it. can the women still charge the man under abuse as there is no evidence on the willingness of both parties as a fact.
