All relationships will encounter challenges, and it is how the
couple ride through it that affect how the relationship matures.
One very poor approach to building relationship is the adversarial,
also called win-lose, approach. Unless one is looking forward to a
final showdown, I would say respectfully that what was advocated in
the earlier few mails may not be the way to go.
I must qualify that what was advocated in earlier post has its
merits and is appropriate in certain circumstances. However, I
believe it is not in the best interest of the couple to apply it
here.
First and foremost, I must reiterate that "Men are from Mars, Women
are from Venus", something that we are so prone to forget. The
problem in many relationship arose because we forget that men and
women are different, and have different needs, and think
differently. If this is something new any of the readers, prepare
for the next revelation...
