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Blowjobs - Other Various Techniques
Sucking really hard
Some guys hate this, but some are amazed at how good it feels. This
is especially good as a "texture" (variety) change during a
blowjob. This doesn't just mean sucking at one constant
pressure...to really amaze him, try sucking hard just on the
out-stroke, or just on the in-stroke (a more subtle effect), or
actually pausing any motion while doing it.
Licking
You may think this is obvious, but it's not, really. Especially
since many guys seem to just expect a rhythmic head-bobbing sorta
suck-fest. But licking is another technique that can be
surprisingly effective. Especially at two points - Early on, before
you've actually touched his penis and are (in theory) exciting him
by working up to it. Licking is a great way to make first contact.
The other time is when you've prolonged things until he's so hard
and excited that breathing on him seems to get him close. Trace the
lines and textures of his head (glans), down the ridge of his shaft
(the side away from his belly/abdomen, more on that later), his
balls (more on that later), and even the exact point where the
inside of his thigh meets the skin of his scrotum, on each side.
That last spot almost deserves its own section, because it can be
very effective. Especially, again, early on before you've focused
on his penis, or after he's really, really close. That area can
also be sucked on, at other times...in some men this is very
stimulating.
Giving him the shaft
The line down the shaft of his penis, on the side opposite where
his penis would touch his abdomen if pressed against it, is one of
the best-kept secrets. This is because its effect isn't obvious at
first. But firm, rhythmic stimulation at some point along the line
down his penis on that side (where exactly it is depends on the
person) can have a startling, strong effect. Depending on the
situation, this can be done with fingers, the tongue, or firm
sucking (just on that area).
Having a ball
This varies so much from guy to guy that it's kinda hard to nail
down. Some guys are almost indifferent to their balls/scrotum being
given attention, or are even uncomfortable with it...but more find
it at least a nice change, some find it fantastic. Various
techniques include sucking a whole "ball" into one's mouth, and
gently fondling it with the tongue, while it's there. This can't be
done for very long without becoming uncomfortable, though. Or
licking about firmly at them when not in the mouth, or to suck at
the skin itself.
I don't think I'll go much into analingus/anal sex. That would
probably require a whole separate article. (OK, I got enough
questions about it that I decided to write an article on it:
Advanced Anal Sex Techniques) Suffice it to say that a minority of
people find this very stimulating, and technically it should be,
considering the proximity to vaginal sexual nerves (women) and the
prostate(men)...but most people are little (or more) uncomfortable
with it, performing or receiving.
But, nearby, one has the base of the scrotum, going in a line
toward the anus. There is a spot along there which can be licked,
or better yet gently pushed with a finger in a rhythmic fashion,
that stimulates the prostate. This allows one to avoid the whole
butt thing, if they're uncomfortable with it, and still get a
little of the almost magical effect that stimulating the prostate
can have. This may need to be something done rhythmically for more
than a little while, with the penis being stimulated at the same
time, to really work well. Gentle, but firm.
Hands
A lot of the best techniques involve hands. If you or he insists on
sticking to purely oral, then a lot of amazing stuff is
missed.
First, there's obviously caressing. This can be done all over the
body, and not just during the initial build-up phase. This is also
a great thing to do during pauses, when prolonging things when he's
too close to orgasm too soon.
The Cock Pull
One really effective trick for direct attention to the penis is to
use both hands, but only in one direction. Saliva may be enough for
this, depending on the situation...but some additional lubricant,
preferably oil-based, may be necessary. Starting at the base, slide
a hand up toward the tip, placing the other hand by the base. Just
before it comes off of the tip, start the other hand moving up from
the base toward the tip. While doing that, put the other hand down
on the base. Keep this up, slowly getting faster. This works great
with a really hard penis (and it's so different/stimulating that
he'll probably have to look (or ask, if it's dark) to see what's
going on)...but it's also a great trick for someone who's not erect
yet (or even having trouble with it). This, obviously, is the one
sure way to have a pumping-type stimulation whether hard or not.
It's my understanding that this works miracles on some people who,
say, are using blood pressure medication or have some other
erectile problem. The opposite works, too, though only with an
erect penis. I mean starting on the top and sliding down to the
base, starting the other hand on the tip before the first finishes,
et cetera, back and forth.
The Drum
If you want to really amaze him, and have him trying to find out
what you're doing, try this - gently wrap a thumb and index finger
around his nuts, to pull them (again, gently) away from his body
slightly, until you have a slight sort of surface tension on the
"end" (spot farthest from his body), a bit like a bulging drum.
Then gently (OK, with a very few people it can be more forceful,
but work your way up to it) run your tongue in a circle around that
"end" area. If done right (and it's hard to get just right), it
creates a really amazing sensation. This won't get most people to
orgasm, but it does feel really good. With a few people you can
even use your fingertip. Or fingernail, though to me that feels a
bit too much like a knife.
Hands are also a good backup plan for when your mouth tires. The
best tactic is make switching back and forth a normal part of your
technique, so it's not obvious if/when you do need to take a rest
break for your mouth.
