As a Muslim gal, i try to answer..
1. 99,99% chance (or should i say 100%), yes the boy must convert
to Islam.
2. really ? for what i know, for most indonesian (btw..i live in
indo) couples (indonesian n Muslim), yes, the husband stay at his
wife parents plc. but i dun think it's a must. depends on the
couples themselves.
3. no problem.
4. hmmm...tell u, one religion n one race marriage is not easy. so
how about if u have 2 different religions moreover different races
? must compromise a lot i think. but..they say "love conquer all ".
so..can u compromise with the differences ?
anyway..think better wait for 6White_Pawn9 to answer. he might have
better answers than me.