Ok before I begin, think you should post this in Aunt Agony
instead of Bar. Heng, I caught your post in top 50.
Secondly: wah piangz, evil clown posted one of my friend. 
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Your relationship is in a mess, but because of a problem so major,
but its how you people go about handling your own love affairs. I
can have a small flame, but mis-handling can still burn the whole
house.
The minute break-patch is used as a tool to avoid problem and come
back whenever either one of you feel better, this relationship is
good as dead, based on the number of cases, experience, theories
and years in AA: result always the same.
Your ex has already make known to you that 'ITS IMPOSSIBLE between
you and him.' Why do you have to avoid that statement and
finds means to move around it? Your suppose of this topic
is to find people who will encourage you and reject this notion?
You won't find it.
What does it take for
you to see that this relationship was dead LONG ago?
What does it take for
you to see that once love is gone and if he has decide to move on,
no matter what you do, how well you change yourself, it never
work?
What does it take for
you to realise that whether the girl is his current gf or not, it
doesn't matter because you never acknowledge that break-up with him
and telling you to release him and move on with your life?
I do not believe as everything ends too abruptly.
We were so sweet in the past but becos of a small matter, he did
not want to accept me again.
.
ACKNOWLEDGE THEM! Why don't you believe? He made known so obviously
and you are subconsciously trying to block off that message.
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You love him? I doubt so.
He say he was so terrify to see me
What kind of space are you giving him? Why is he terrified? Love
him? Possessive Love has transformed you into something ghastly.
You repel him. Don't you ever realise that
by loving him, you have to see him happy and pursue his own path in
life?
Have you? Did he?
What it takes to make you see all these? Are you going to keep
avoiding and continued your behavior till the day where he flare up and
declare to you that he regreted being with you and don't ever wanna
see your presence again?
P.S: Are you a Scorpio, Pisces, Taurus?
Cheers
