whoof....
if your bf tells you that he'll slap you if you not his gf... then
this is something worrying... first, what if one day he doesn't
think you're his gf anymore, will he really slap? think you really
have to talk to him about this... but then again, if he's already
giving you an indifferent attitude when you talk to him, why waste
your time to even talk to him...
maybe its about time you move on.... not rubbing it in, but if you
will ever post your pic here, trust there may be a lot more
sensible and understanding guys out here. I think the 3 yrs has
really grown into the 2 of you. He thinks he's owned you enough to
say these to you, while you've been with him long enough to think
you can throw your temperaments to him anytime assuming he should
bear with it.
sit down, find out how much the two of you still feels for each
other. When you realise that the "fire" in the 2 of you has died
down... look elsewhere.... but if there are still hopes to
relinquish the hopes and the fire, explain to him how you felt and
make him understand how it feels when
1) when he talks to you, you give him the SBC attitude (Simply Boh
Chap)
2) when he gets upset and you still tell him that you'll slap him
if not because of bf/gf relationship
3) screw him with lots of vulgarities...with assortments of
languages...
You must know how to let him understand without doing the same
thing back to him.... in a relationship, nothing helps when you are
vengeful...
cheer up.... you can tell there are still lots of people out there
who will listen to you and cares....