eh i can't be bothered to read thru everything, but well... i'm
learning this lesson as well la.. remembering that we are all
humans, and we are all emotional, so when we're hving a bad day,
usually ppl around us oso will hv a bad day cuz of us..
girl, no offence ok? but u're not all that perfect yrself, u know
that, and tt for 3 years he has been really nice and sweet and
stuff, is really good le. i'm not siding him la, but i'm sure u hv
days where u oso quite angry at him rite? maybe he was hving a bad
day and stuff. and u caught him at the wrong time
if everytime u not happy with yr other half, then want to break up,
u're nv gonna get married, and even if u do, u'll just see lots of
divorce papers.
but if u are endangered physically, or mentally, then better seek
some help and think things thru abt yr relationship with him.. and
when i mean endangered mentally, i dun mean he just once in 3 years
got mad at you, i mean like everyday putting u down, even when u
are being the "good guy" like those drunkard stuff. 
