[quote]Originally posted by edseeker31:
[b]whoof....
if your bf tells you that he'll slap you if you not his gf... then
this is something worrying... first, what if one day he doesn't
think you're his gf anymore, will he really slap? think you really
have to talk to him about this... but then again, if he's already
giving you an indifferent attitude when you talk to him, why waste
your time to even talk to him...
wats the confusing thing abt toking and
then not oking to him again? u ask her to go tok to him and then
when she does, u ask her to keep quiet again cos of attitude, then
y in the 1st place want to tok? ?? some "gd" advice given here
shaun...if only you read carefully. I'm saying that she's gotta try
to talk to him, but only when he has respect for her. But.... take
example that if you have a gf and she's giving you a boh chap
atttitude, do you think talking to her will make any difference and
she will even listen to your heart?
maybe its about time you move on.... not
rubbing it in, but if you will ever post your pic here,
trust there may be a lot more sensible and understanding guys out
here. I think the 3 yrs has really grown into the 2 of you. He
thinks he's owned you enough to say these to you, while you've been
with him long enough to think you can throw your temperaments to
him anytime assuming he should bear with it.
u are saying u are not rubbing in and u
ask ppl to move on without even try to solve the problem at hand
and not even try out the solutions tt are available? another "gd"
advice this is
shaun, here again I'm saying that if you are in a rls for 3 yrs...
and you have come to realise that there is no longer the love...why
cling on to something for the sake of the years together only. so
why not move on...if the rls is not salvageable...
sit down, find out how much the two of you still feels for each
other. When you realise that the "fire" in the 2 of you has died
down... look elsewhere.... but if there are still hopes to
relinquish the hopes and the fire, explain to him how you felt and
make him understand how it feels when
1) when he talks to you, you give him the SBC attitude (Simply Boh
Chap)
2) when he gets upset and you still tell him that you'll slap him
if not because of bf/gf relationship
3) screw him with lots of vulgarities...with assortments of
languages...
wat fantastic advice given in the 3
options above... all nonsense and noone will noe wat is he trying
to say.. thnx to his "gd" sentence... and ask ppl to
scold back vulgurities is gd? ask ppl to slap each
other is gd? tok back in a SBC
attitude is gd advice? i think u totally
failed to give a single advice.....
can't you read the above which I've said that how will the guy
feels if she does back the same things to her? she has mentioned
that the attitude he'd given her was also a boh chap attitude
and what if she ever said the same words he used on her....first
put yourself in other people's shoe, then you can see how it
feels...
