What if your gf had sex with her ex bf?

last SG · 2003-06-07T12:52:04+00:00

Actually, I'm not really asking for advise, but I just wanted to know what will you do if such things happened (touch wood!!) to you. I know we need to trea...

erijazz SG

Same. He can went to bed wif his ex...thats doesn't mean he accept his gf to do the same. It's vice verse for the gers too, rite?

yuhao SG

to me it happens to let me think that whether the girl had sex with his ex during her past relationship or when is being with her current stead.. it matters a lot.. if it is before they are together then i find it fine (if you really like the girl, you wun mind about her past) but if it is when the both of them are together and she and her ex had sex, then i may think that she is very loose, though maybe my type i’ll find it hard to accept as i think the girl still holds some memory of her ex. can’t really trust

the Bear SG

are you sure?

from what i have observed,
if the girl strays, it's the guy's fault. he can't please her
if the guy strays, it's the guy's fault. he's a selfish worm.

somehow, throughout the years, the man is now taken for granted.. he should "understand" and all kinds of things.. while the woman can be as unreasonable as she wants and he must still pander to her...

it is a disturbing turn of events...

winky SG

but normally guys won't feel much about this kinda thing.(they doing ONS with other people other than their gf). In fact many would brag to their friends. Seen a number of such cases. To most guys, they would find it quite ok about it. If they felt sorry or guilty to their gf, they would try to be nicer to them as make up.

But if they found out their gfs did ONS, they would be very pissed off with her.

I don't know. But there is a bias perspective in regards to ONS between female and a male.

yuhao SG

are you a guy or a girl here.. from what you said right, i find it quite true.. but..
can't always blame everything on the guys right.. maybe like what i've said in my previous forum, she still can't forget her ex or something like that.. if this is the case then i'll think that this is the girl's fault and not the guy's.. this type of things can be seen very differently by everyone.. each and everyone have their own thought towards this type of things.. so whatever you all wanna say just feelfree, no hurts or whatsoever

the Bear SG

i wonder... do guys go for ONS more? or are up to it more?

where do they find the women to do this with???

do you get my drift?

winky SG

erm, no. Don't get it. We're just biting off each other's tail now. Is that what you mean?

There has never been equality on Earth. Even the laws made it so. Women is almost alway the 'protected species' of the sexes. Look up divorce cases, look up civil servant benefits, the man always have to look after the women. Just as God told Adam to do so. (I think so)

tacx0101 SG

what i find is.. this type of gf, dont want also better. who knows what would happen even after your get married. unless u two are really a loving couple. which i doubt so. cause a loving couple wouldnt do anything to hurt or disturb the other party. Neutral

chilicrab SG

wat u dun noe cant hurt u.best to forget such issure if u realli luv him. Wink

leilan84 SG

he/she who betray will betray again.
the first is not the last Evil or Very Mad

ask her to get a life somewhere...
that's wad i would do. Crying or Very sad

GIJOE SG

I personally have encounter this before... my ex broke off with me for some reasons and i still have feelings for her...but i actually avoided her for almost a year... then one day she called me n we did meet up after a period of time... then its like everything comes back... i felt its like before... we even do get intimate together.... then just after some time... she suddenly cool off n back off...

And its not only once... i feel that one should never take advantage of one's weakness for personal gains... i was thoroughly disappointed Neutral

the Bear SG

the fact that there are people going for ONS... statistically the numbers of men and women doing this should be about the same since they are doing so...

so why are the men saddled with the "men will go screw around more" tag when there are just as many women who are also players?

xiao_p SG

Crying or Very sad wat can i say.... sad i guess

istvennz SG

I have such experience as I could tell u that tis really suxz big time till now i still remmeber wat have had happenz. I did was a tight slap across my ex-gf, I ride away with hatred and next moment lying in hospital with mutiple fracture from shlder to knees. Ha.. that was wat i did n wat i get back…

winning 11 SG

I will said e girl is a bitch or e guy is a bastard if they ons when they are in a relationship…u can say as much things as u like,they love each other veri much den must forgive her or him or whatsoever..but in e end he or she is one selfish being.

Indulgence SG

That's a tough one.
1) The boy would be very VERY VERY fuming mad Evil or Very Mad , yet very sad at the same time.
2) And I'd feel horrible and break up with the girl immediately. Cos if she can sleep with someone else after we'd a quarrel, I wouldn't wanna imagine if we had a small argument, she'll make out with someone else? Geez. And I wouldn't trust her
3) I would rather not know. But if I have to choose one of the above, I'd want the girl to tell me herself, face to face. No matter how difficult it is. I want to see her face, her guilt, her conscience.

19Guy1LoveNotSex SG

if my stead go to bed with another guy and let me find out ,i will get prepared to break off with her then make her preganct 1st ... If after 2 or 3 mth she found that she got pregnact then i will ask :" Its is mine or that bastard, how confirm u know its mine." This sure will torture her...... Twisted Evil [/quote]

|onner SG

wah lau eh

that bad

|onner SG

hehe

now my currently gf is still a V

kway SG

i experienced the same thing as u. now when she contact me i pretend not interested anymore. she has a bf now n wat else she wan fr mi? ONS? haa wait long.

now if a good ger happens to throw into yur arm but she not exactly the ideal chiobu u hoping for. will u accept her?? or just toy with her? its seem the world is round.. good guy dun care for looks. accept her as she is. enjoy her company. bad guy will toy with her..

Originally posted by WinBoi84:
[b]Zhong's Quote of the Day...

Sometimes I really think all girls sux...
>wonder whether is any good girl still exist in this world<

Girls Like to make use of guys especially when she knows u are fond of her. U can invest all your love, spend all your energy, spend all your money, spent all your times on her. It's still useless...

When u are no longer haf the value of being used, she will "dump" u...
But u cannot get over her becoz u really love/like her yet she treats u in such cruel ways...
Time flies - seconds, minutes, hours, days, months, years later...
And one fine day, u finally get over her. She appears before your eyes once again...
Now your feeling is back and u are sure that u truthly like/love her...
She makes u gian gian, thinking that now she likes u, she wants u to be her bf/husband but u are sure she is the only one u love most in your life...
Next u can invest all your love, spend all your energy, spend all your money, spent all your times on her...
And it starts all over again...

WTF does good girl hidding...?
In the first place ask yourself, is there really good girl exist in this cruel and realistic world...? Confused [/b]

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