lucky you. Homecooked dishes are the best reunion
dinner. I dun like steamboat or eat out.
Too bad, this year onwards, my family has to go out, cuz my mom
not going to cook anymore 
Haha... it's ok... my aunt always cook for reunion dinner and we
all gather at her house to make lots of noise...
But still, I guess meeting our loved ones and interacting
with our relatives is more important than the food...
hence u need not feel bad.