Hmm, if he is offering you money, it will appear in you "foreign
aid" screen; you will also have a "Foreign Aid" message appearing
in your inbox informing you about the Aid that you've received and
thus asking you to check it out and accept or reject.
After you accepted, its recommended you agree to the trade
immdiately so as to gain the other perso's trust. 
Lol well done then! You must have done something to
populatin..like bringing over Gackt and getting him to Bendz to
appease your pop? No wonder he's been getting backaches..
