hmm from praising women to highlighting men's apparent penchant
for infdelity...
oh well.. yeah thank goodness someone said that women are also
capable of that but that's totally out of point in this thread
anyway.
i like singaporean women becos i am singaporean too. one of the
biggest hurdles is culture, and even within the same culture there
can be many differences like upbringing, financial status and
education. imagine having to deal with a different culture
altogether AND the other stuff.
singaporean women in general are getting pretty stubborn and
independant and have minds of their own. that of course isn't a bad
thing. i do know, and feel that no matter how head strong a woman
is, once they fall in love, a miracle happens. it seems the
stubborness is geared towards the encouragement of her man. the
biggest proof of this is the "nan ren bu huai, nu ren bu ai"
syndrome, where she is stubborn to all else, but just wants to
stick to her man. now if she were to stick to a man that's good,
then there'll be blissful times ahead.
however, maybe this nan ren bu huai thing isn't isolated to just
singaporean women. i'm sure many women over the world have this
"problem" too.
sometimes when u see a woman's behavior and u think she's too
independant or headstrong and esp if u are one of those geared
towards the MCP type of man (like me? hahaha) u might not take a
liking to the girl. i still think that many things change when a
woman falls in love, and i dare say it's not becos the guy forces
it upon her. women are more emotional than men in general and love
is generally classified as having a very strong emotional basis. i
see it totally logical that when a woman is in love, miracles
happen.
