see, u cannot use a case of blissful marriage(in this case MM
Lee and wife) and say tat its irreuftable evidence cos wad works
for MM Lee may not necessarily work for all...u cannot
expect a person looking for irrefutable evidence to
trust his marriage will not end in divorce juz cos there are
blissful ones ard...cos u see, there are also divorces...so the pt
here is, there is no irrefutable(universal) evidence tat marriages
will be blissful cos how do u explain the divorces?
I did not say MM lee method will work for u or ask u to follow
them. I just stated the irrefutable fact tat there r people with
happy and blissful marriages. There r people who live as a couple
together till one die. Your first question is really "so does tat
mean blissful marriages dun exist?" If one exist, then blissful
marriages exist isn't it ? SO your first question is answered.
and there is a second question u asked "there may be happy
marriages ard but there are also divorces...so where is the
irrefutable evidence tat i wun end up divorced if i get married?".
Now there is no irrefutable evidence tat u will not end up
divorced. In truth, u have a chance to be divorced. Why will there
be irrefutable truth to something tat is not true ?
note tat u cannot say 1st get married then work the marriage out
cos that is like saying tat enter the religion then find out if God
exist...the premises of this argument is while i am not yet
married, prove to me tat when i get married, my marriage wun end in
divorce...onli if it can be proven(irrefutably) then i get married.
its the same idea as prove to me God exist then i believe...
I see the argument differently from u based on the same
marriage. I want my marriage to be successful too, and wat I do is
to do some study, communicate with my girlfriend, see if we can be
together and gauge how we can resolve problem etc. When I am
convinced tat we could be together forever, then I commit and
marry.
For u, u r asking people to anyhow believe first then see if it
is true or not. It is like saying u r asking people to anyhow marry
first then see if u end up in divorce. If u start to anyhow
"believe" and then find out it is not true, then u "divorce" god
and jump into another religion immediately ?
and finally on your good grace thing, wat it teaches doesn't
help in making it seems true. It can talk all he cock and bull in
the world like other religion or cults but it doesn't make it more
believable. Just because it saves by grace then it is true ?