it's always been personal comments.... even when one rips verses
from the Bible or quotes scientists.... it's still personal
comments because none of us are truly theologians or scientists in
the pure sense of the world....
I thought u teach in bible classes before ? Surely u r qualified
to answer queries. 
Furthermore, it do not need to take a theologian to answer basic
questions or a real scientist to answer science questions. When u
believe in something, at least for me, everything should make
sense
Maybe we may need to redefine what heaven is. I agree with how
Dr. NT Wright describes heaven is. It is not a place a we go to
after we die but it is a space which God controls.
U know your answer is not a conventional answer from the bible
or the church. In tat case u believe when u die, u just die ? Then
wat happened to non-believers ? Why do we seek to allow a being to
come to our world to control us and make us slaves ?
Unfortunately, the church has failed in this aspect at parts of
history. And that is why it is confusing sometimes. If there is
anyone to be blamed, it has to be us.
Tat is a risky belief to take, because
1) anything in it can be wrong
2) the whole belief is wrong and ignoring the confusing part is
just to cover up its flaws