you are sure? how sure are you? i am reminded of someone, a
Malaysian Muslim, who told me me he believes Muslims are less prone
to committing sins when we were discussing some teenage issues, and
I have to point out to him that humans being humans, being a
follower to a religion does not automatically make one sinless or
almost sinless, its takes great personal effort to do so
along the same line, why are you so sure the churches will make
sure of it? even if there are such rules, how much effort have been
made to enforce such rules, and are such rules effective, because
what have been said are different from what people see in
action
instead of ranting at people here, much help can be given by trying
to bridge those gaps, that is a solution