I was the first among my extended-family's generation to do NS,
so quite sotong at first. More or less just live day-to-day through
BMT & course time, I guess.
Also had quit NPCC during sec school -- didn't like the tekaning,
& I mean real hazing by sadist Pre-U seniors -- so I
instinctively just "squat one corner" dring the Tekong leadership
tests.
Where I really grew up was about 21-22 months in. As my unit winded
down to ROD, my BC called up the two A-Levels men in the BTY &
issued an ultimatum: follow 6 SIR overseas for jungle training, or
be recycled to 46 SAR to serve out the extra 6 months' NS. Rather
than kena the extra operational time, I chose the former.
Brunei was super-siong. My SOC timing would improve by 50 seconds
to 8:06 after the 5 weeks there! (Not bad for an ex-fatty recruit.)
But I also picked up an independent streak, being my unit's sole
rep in that Arty attachment (3 officers & 4 men of 4 different
units). Not only must I fight alone for my off-in-lieus after my
return (luckily with a new BC, with whom the bolder me discovered I
could "boss" over"), but the unit itself had forgotten about me
& left me stranded at the airport! Thankfully, a 6 SIR tonner
gave me a ride, albeit dropping me off (illegally) along the PIE
highway near my home. My COS was so surprised at my phone call that
he didn't reject when I told him about taking 2 days' off (not
proper SOP, mind you).
When I finally reported back, my buddies commented how "hard" I
looked (quite true, I had shrunken cheeks for the first time in my
life). I also found out about my double promotion to CPL during my
absence. Not long after, I was inducted (2 weeks!) as a BMT
instructor by the incoming Arty Training Cadre to help out with the
new mono-intake. Quite senang with the recruits -- was voted most
popular & the only instructor to receive everyone's signature
on the POP photo ~lol~ -- & then, as they moved on to trade
course, spent my last 3 months' clearing my 40+ days of offs/leave.
My unit wanted to attach me out again to Thailand (as an Arty
controller) during this last period, but the emboldened me made a
big fuss & eventually they arrowed someone else. Wouldn't have
mind going, actually, but the timing's all wrong for this lao-jiao
by then ~lol~