I SEE THIS THREAD UNTIL BUAY TAHAN LIAO
Let me tell my story can? I was... having the worst time in NS.
Yes. Always arrowed, because some people didn't like me. And when
the top brass don't like you you are in deep trouble because you
complain you kena even more.
But I took it in my stride.. I was angry, and am still pretty angry
at some things that happened, but I always remind myself that I am
NOT serving the sergeant, encik, the officer or the general.. I am
a soldier for THE COUNTRY.
Lousy leaders do not make a lousy military. The majority of the
army is>>officers or privates? And no matter how lousy,
unreasonable, UNFAIR the military may be, don't forget that YOU are
NOT lousy, unreasonalbe or UNFAIR. You
are not in the same category. You are a MODEL SOLDIER.
Whatever nonsense they dish out, you TAKE. And that says alot about
you. Laugh at your encik or sergeant in private, knowing that you
are SUPERIOR TO HIM. His
"bullying" is because he has LOW self-esteem. You have HIGH
self-esteem. Why should allow yourself to get affected by
such a person? You can take anything he can give!
Threadstarter,
try using this mindset for one week and see if things improve
ok?
Now, if you look at my rank you will faint.
(I know I posted alot of weird posts in the SAF
forum asking weird questions about the GDS and CDOs. This is not
because I don't know due to my rank-it is more of a "I didn't have
the time to find out". I was too busy doing my job to engage in
chit-chat. And I also speak Cantonese, not Hokkien, so some things
are just beyond my language scope.)