well. a few things i feel
1. she prob still wants to control ur life, alot.
2. i dunno abt physical abuse... whether its "normal" and
acceptable in ur home. but i do noe its unhealthy for
relations
3. if u r alright wif all this, den i guess its not too bad.
4. but if u r not alright wif being treated this way, i think u
shud try to let them noe.
in the end u r old, old enuff to serve ur ns obligation to the
nation. so u shud haf and be more independent.