introverted guy

icyprincess SG

Originally posted by ditzy:
Just let that [b]poor guy be what he wants to be. You can't force love and love can't be forced. You can't force it upon him if he doesn't want to. Same goes for him, he can't force anything upon you.[/b]

You said "that poor guy"? So you think i am the one in the wrong instead? Is it right for guys to lead a girl on like this? Is it right for him to just toy with her feelings, just for the heck of it?

You are one of those ppl who make me think like I am the one doing wrong instead. And I am also the one hurting, while he is probably now off somewhere laughing because I am stupid enuff to get duped by all his sweet acts.

i.c.y

ditzy SG

You already posted before you closed the chapter behind, now you want to close it again. So when you really going to close the chapter? Rolling Eyes

Qitai SG

What did he do? Were you ever his GF?

icyprincess SG

i will close it when all my questions are answered. and when i have let him know it is not possible for me to fulfil my promise to him anymore. so far, neither of these two things have been fulfilled.

i.c.y

icyprincess SG

no. but he made me think that I am going to be.

i.c.y

Estee SG

sometimes…. u will never get the answers loh.

icyprincess SG

so u think i shud not confront him? i shud just let him go like dat?

i.c.y

ditzy SG

You should tune down your sensitivity one big notch, don't percieve a guy's action as being nice as that of affections, or love, or passion. If such was the case, my homey should be all over me by now. Rolling Eyes

Estee SG

i dunno...... it's up to you.....

Qitai SG

So, what the use of confronting him now? He obviously decided to give you a miss now. I don't think you will be any happier even if you get some answers from him. Like if he says he realized you are not suitable for him, how does that help you?

icyprincess SG

watever. i dun believe dat guys will just spend a lot just because they wan to be "nice". I dunno if you are like dat, but if you are, i wud say all ur frens are very lucky ppl and u will go bankrupt pretty soon.

i.c.y

icyprincess SG

yea. it is not going to help me. i just wan to pay him back what i owe him and i want to remind him that i wun be able to fulfil the promise i made to him. because unlike sum ppl, i dun believe in breaking my promise just like dat. if i cant keep my words for sum reasons, i wan to let the other party know abt it.

i.c.y

Patrik SG

I also introvert
hehehe

ditzy SG

Then I can safely tell you I am indeed bankrupt till I get my money back. Coz I paid with my own money, close to 4000 dollars her rent and her holiday trip to Melbourne which she just left for today.

icyprincess SG

and who is she to u?

i.c.y

ditzy SG

She's not even my friend, she's only my friend's friend. My housemate. Nothing more.

icyprincess SG

and u expect her to pay u back?

i.c.y

Qitai SG

Now, I am confuse. Is it you have no chance to tell him about your promise or are you still trying to ask him out? If you have the chance to ask him out, why didn't take your chance to tell him about your promise? Also, you can easily inform him about your promise easily by sending a SMS or an email. What is so difficult about that?

Time to move on I say. Also, don't fall so easily next time, for your own good. Take more time to communicate and understand the other party before going too deep.

ditzy SG

Why don't I expect her to pay back?

icyprincess SG

because u say u r a nice guy who will easily pay for ur frens, and wun expect em to pay u back in return Very Happy

man, when u said dat, i really want to be ur fren. Twisted Evil

i.c.y

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