Can feelings be developed over time?

last SG · 2004-09-13T14:53:24+00:00

Originally posted by Axelheat755: And the answer is.....[b]YES! Provided the guy doesn't do anything to annoy you [/b]dun tink he will ever do anything to...

icyprincess SG

thank you, thank you Smile

just wish dat i can like him more Embarassed

I just dun tink i deserve him...dunno why...

i.c.y

Kenashi SG

Slowly love will grow when u understand him better or when u know what u really want.
Don't rush love, just let nature take its course.
Wink

icyprincess SG

i guess mebbe cos i havent talked to him long enuff yet..havent had those one-to-one talk yet...so i still feel i dunno him well enuff...

but feel bad lor..evtime we went out, he wud insist on paying for evthing..i wanted to pay oso he wun let me...

i.c.y

Kenashi SG

Ask him out for coffee n talk to him on wkend.
Buy him something or better yet make him something.
He will appreciate it.
Razz

Estee SG

as said over msn…... i believe it’s easier for gals to develop the Ri Jiu Shen Qing feelings for the guys and harder for the guys to develop those kinder feelings for the gals….. this is deduced from some of my closed buddies’ experiences…..

icyprincess SG

yea dats y i asked him out this weekend lor...
dunno wat to buy for him..his bday over oledi...
mebbe christmas lor...

i.c.y

SnowFlag SG

are those closed buddies u mentioned, all gals?

Estee SG

yeah man..... guys mostly gib me the..... like means like.... dun have next time maybe will like kinda thingie leh..... Rolling Eyes

icyprincess SG

maybe lor...mebbe dats y guys do the pursuing most of the time...

i.c.y

Kenashi SG

Or cook something for him.
Mix with love, surely he will be very happy. Razz

SnowFlag SG

For me, I think feelings can be developed over time. Not sure about others.

Estee SG

well.... shd use back the same thingie i like to use all the time.... doesn't apply to all...... cannot generalise again..... hahahaha

icyprincess SG

haha...i m the most terrible cook in the whole world...

i.c.y

Estee SG

how about handicraft?? ;P

or writing?? errrr

Axelheat755 SG

hmm the fact that you wonder means he has a place in ur heart oredi... over time, the feeling will grow...provided there is no distractions...

Axelheat755 SG

Originally posted by F.O.S:

Thats why I always bring my GF out for a walk in weekends, incase 1 day he leave me I won't feel so guilty Laughing

Ur GF is a he? Shocked

Axelheat755 SG

communication is the key...

icyprincess SG

I guess...hopefully there will be no distraction la...

I think he has a place in my heart as a fren who really cares abt me..cos sumtimes when i put in my msn sign in name saying dat i m tired or sick, he will msg me to ask how am i...dats why i m touched by what he does for me..

i.c.y

Kenashi SG

Then how about drawing a picture of him!!!

Axelheat755 SG

You are right!

Worse is those guys take advantage of the gers...

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