I am toking about the context in which he spoke in the
article.
Of cos if a fren or someone leaves the church for very bad reasons
like he doesnt want to believe in God anymore or he just doesnt
care anymore, then of cos we should be concerned. If the person
leaves for another church, why should we label him a deserter? I
have frens who leave for another church and have a fren who left a
protestant church for a catholic church. Should I label him
deserter too? I dun think so.
But in the article, the person dun even know why a person is
leaving and label him deserter liao....It seems to me he dun even
care why a person leaves the church, as long u leave the church, u
are bad.
And the last thing you should do if you wanna get the person back
is to label a name on a person just like what the article
suggests.