Backstabbing

last SG · 2007-09-20T14:43:17+00:00

yeah! feel relieve dat i no longer seeing pple i dun want to see. but 5 days of being jobless make me think negatively about myself... how i am such a fail...

rainee SG

Mad Evil or Very Mad

I am a victim of backstabbing today. And the most surprising thing is I thought my manager would understand my position and would side with me, but she decided to side with the backstabbing colleague.

And to think I treated him with kindness all this while. He joined a few months later than me and I taught him all that is needed to help him to fit into the environment. But ended up my hand got bitten by the tiger dat I fed instead.

So lesson to peeps here: don't be taken in by ppl who look innocent or pretend to look innocent. Trust no one Mad

seow SG

Is the book on identifying body language by allan and babara pease available in malaysia?

You might want to read that. Laughing

Rock^Star SG

How were you backstabbed?

dragg SG

a manageress once told me life is a jungle during an interview.

welcome to the jungle.

Laughing

Nadare SG

hmm. i believe there are such ppl out there.. however i have met some good colleagues too..

use our vision to see who should be trusted and who should not be...

rainee SG

He told my boss that she needs to give me more work to do. And there were some projects which we are supposed to handle together, apparently he managed to persuade my manager to see that he is handling a lot more stuff than me, while according to him, I am just doing nothing most of the time Confused

Which is total bullshit cos I have almost the same working hours as him, just that the workload is different only. Plus I have more admin stuff to handle compared to him.

I can't believe that my manager believed the crap he said. Totally disappointed in her.

Luckily I am also quitting soon Twisted Evil

rainee SG

I have always thought that he is a good colleague, he has never tried to backstab me before this. Plus I have trust in my manager that she knows what I am doing and that if anyone accuses me unfairly, she will do whatever she can to deal with the matter justly.

But this just, surprises me. I am not sure what he said to her.

JJxJJ SG

you can trust me Laughing

Rock^Star SG

He sees you as a competitor. Laughing

Well, just your luck as we cannot prevent others bad-mouthing us. Well, you're quitting anyway.

Gordonator SG

welcome to the jungle. Laughing

BadzMaro SG

i thought it was the unwritten rule to trust no one ah.

Unless u got him by the balls. huahaha.. HAHAHAHA!!! Twisted Evil

ahem..

anyways.. the innocent and quiet type some really genuine.. but some.. i tell u... they are the ones u always wont see it coming one. Thats why i watch thier @ss... thier every move.. and make sure if they backstab me.. they will burn!

coolger03 SG

maybe u r sure lah... cos so far, i never encounter any backstabbing issues.... and hope that i will not encounter too...

u shld have told ur manager that u handled more admin stuff and u r not THAT free after all...

CoolMyth SG

This reminds me to be careful as well.

Trust no one! Twisted Evil

dragg SG

it is ok to thrust someone, but dont trust anyone.

Embarassed

rainee SG

I will watch him from now on and make sure I don't say too much to him.

My manager knows that I am affected so she came to have a private talk with me just now. I think somehow she managed to calm me down and also she has told my colleague not to keep comparing who has more work to do and so on.

Rock^Star SG

Sp you've got a good manager after all!

Sons of bit.ches will pay someday.

caleb_chiang SG

Rolling Eyes

Normal lah... sucky ppl are all around... Laughing

Toblerone SG

shame on me for having thoughts of betraying my employers ; whom treat me as their equal partner Embarassed

i feel like a low fat chocolate bar with deceiving calories

ispyyy SG

Never noe tat this type is also call backstab...

Anyway, u r quitting soon.... so ok lah..

<Precious> SG

My sympathies...... Crying or Very sad But such is the state of the corporate world these days. Fear not for justice will prevail one day......... Hypocrisy is just a disease that many are carriers. It's sad when you have to watch your back all the time....... Sad

But this cloak and dagger thing is here to stay. I'm past dreading it already. If the axe has to fall on my neck because of this, so be it.... I'll just take life one day at a time and try to be as happy as I can at all times. Cross the bridge when you come to it. No point getting paranoid and screwing up your life...... Very Happy