it's not even my wedding .... but my sister's, this weekend
....
but mine got dragged in cos I'd be responsible for "payback"
.... 
it's quite simple really ..... some pompus atas aunt's family is
refusing participation cos one of the cousin's getting married too,
early next year, less than six months away ....
they asked my folks over for "tea" last sunday.... my folks
thought, okie, dun come nevermind, we'd like you to come, but you
dun wan also bo pian ....... at least they know to do the right
thing and pack a red packet .... but no ! .... instead of a red
packet and some apologies and congrats, they said it's in the best
interest of the cousin, not to have any "come, go" in the near
future (we never had much "come go" anyways) ..... and then they
asked my folks for some sort of "dui lian" ... some hokkien
pan tang I think ... to give to the cousin getting married.
of course, all this are just petty things, my folks doesn't care
about that of course ...... the kicker came when my sis messaged
one of the elder cousins if he's coming for the wedding dinner ....
the cousin replied "but I was told by my folks that your folks
would not be happy to have me there" ... my sister was like "har ?
" ... and showed the sms to my folks at the dinner table just
now.
that blew it ! ..... my folks are boiling ! ....
WTF is "come, go" and WTF does your sister's wedding have to do
with your cousin's?
Does not compute.
