emotional vampyrs..
hmmm... i've seen them too...
ultimately, all it boils down to is that they are suffering from
what i have termed the "Supermassive Black Hole Syndrome"
the universe is postulated to revolve around a Supermassive Black
Hole..
in the same way, they feel that the whole universe must revolve
around them... everything and everyone is on this earth because of
them... and then, lacking the self-esteem, they keep badgering
others..
there are also many manifestations of these people..
there are those who indulge in emotional blackmail.. and they are
about the worse.. the most scary ones are those who put on a facade
of "i'm suffering but i will be strong and not show it" yet they
hint to others that they are "suffering"
by claiming that they "do not want to be a victim or play victim",
they essentially become the ones everyone will side with and
support no matter who was wronged...
what is scary is that it becomes their nature to do that.. so much
so that they don't even know they are doing it..
in many ways, there are such everywhere... perhaps, we are without
even knowing it ourselves 
