haiz. the problem with my church is that the premises is not
available for functions like wedding. it is like an auditorium that
they rent out. that's why gotta look for solomization location.

my dad started asking for a lot of stuff like number of tables,
'ping jing', etc. then i said 'eh the whole wedding is paid by Tx
and I okie.' he then he gave the most stupid retort 'shouldn't his
parent pay? isn't TX their son?' so i shut him by by saying 'i'm
your daughter and you are not paying my wedding'. and this is only
the start of his nonsense. *blood boil*
i dun wanna fight my parents too. i'm good with my mum but she is
the typical 'soft' chinese lady and ends up giving in mostly. as
for my dad, it takes effort for me to not snap.
oh well, anyway it seems like a lot of issues right now are
tempting me to throw in the towel. i'm gonna try to hang on, and
pray all these problems are temporary 