Getting To Know Him Strategies

last SG · 2007-01-29T11:58:42+00:00

i think chatting on the phone then going out for the "old movie trick" is still one of the best around. of course, don't use the " i got extra tickets and...

the Bear SG

getting to know her, then getting to know her better... Embarassed

Laughing

tare SG

simple... do something tat's NOT in the male's nature: TALK! Laughing

the_don SG

i sooo agree with tare on tis point.

then when u attached liao the TALK suddenly stop. feel v cheated leh Evil or Very Mad

av98m SG

Laughing Question

ShrodingersCat SG

If its me.. Very Happy no problemo lah...
but not so easy cos my friend is really very very very very very shy.
And its really difficult for her to open up to people
she takes time to get to know the person
so its really tough for her to think about going out one-on-one
but at the same time, she feels awkward cos they don't have many 'common' friends to go out together
so if she ask him to join HER friends, she feels its very 'obvious'

The guy is also the quite shy and conservative type and she doesn't want to 'scare' him away either.

tare SG

wait till u get married.... all u hear is the tv sound Laughing

Wanda SG

Or the computer sound. Laughing

ShrodingersCat SG

-guilty-

av98m SG

Question Confused

the_don SG

-quite sure will be guilty too- Embarassed

the_don SG

arranged marriages might be the solution for the overly shy but would like to be married. they can tell their parents and their parents can meet up and decide on the marriage stuff, then they can get married without shedding their shyness.

the Bear SG

uhh.. i usually talk people's ears off Razz

ShrodingersCat SG

So do I... (u talking to the girl who had "she is too talkative in class" and then "she is still too talkative in class" consecutively for two years...)

BUT somehow... now having to teach (and therefore having to talk a lot)
I dont talk that much at home liao Sad

Bontakun SG

I tok alot... does dat mean I not male in da 1st place? Confused

the Bear SG

well, you had something to say Smile

i had a lot of nothing to say Laughing

sad thing is that when i speak, my brain goes in all directions at 100mph.. people have problems figuring out what i'm saying Sad

ShrodingersCat SG

Thing is.. she's not... THAT shy. Its just that she's the type who needs time to open up, then she's becomes funny, a bit crazy, and totally noisy.

BUT it took her years to feel this comfortable with us.

Most guys tend to be motivated to go after a girl on the initial impressions and by the time they really get to know her, tend to treat her like friend already. No more sparks leh. Sad

the Bear SG

story of my life..

coz.. i shy Embarassed

Laughing

rainee SG

hmm after attached le sumtimes we wonder how come we still have so much to talk abt? Laughing

but tink one day we will end up having nothing to talk about liao

tare SG

by "talk" i mean communicate... not just yak yak yak... Laughing

av98m SG

I was just mentioning to the vicious one the other day, it takes me a damn long time to really warm up to a person, then by the time I decide I want to go after her, too late liao, either someone take action before me or she is too comfy being friends liao. My reaction is always very the slow. Story of my life, LPPL.

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