tare SG i personally believe there's a "golden time" whr it determines if the r/s is gonna turn romantic or platonic.... miss tat golden time, and too bad lor! hit when the iron is hot! "after su zhou, no more boat liao"!
ShrodingersCat SG Actually I find it is not that it is not 'impossible' What a relationship like this needs is a SITUATION where a paradigm shift can happen where SUDDENLY you are no Mr Buddy-good-guy-who-is-good-for-a-beer But Mr-Hey-Why-Didn't-I-notice-he's-really-sweet? But yeah the same problem with my friends... is that most of them are also girls who take time to be appreciated. But always end up being the 'buddy' instead of the girl who is being longed for.
tare SG the OLDER generation go into r/s with the intention to commit.. cos they dun have much time to waste liao.... felt like i kenna shoot like dat.... u not ready to commit with a lady har?? then wat, gentleman instead?
the Bear SG seriously speaking, that's where another guy has moved in and taken her away, and her buddy-good-guy is actually happy that she has someone with her! strange but true.. (person experience )
tare SG tat's why, once in a while must suddenly dress super chio and stunned the blind idiot!!! [works esp. well if he just broke off and feeling lonely...]
ShrodingersCat SG Uhh.. well only if you can dress up to be super chio in the first place I guess hurhurhur for those -sniffles- who can't... we rely on more insidious methods of revenge. -censored for violence-
Bontakun SG It will lah... Oei... Wat makes you tink I am going for a simple "dating" like I described har?
the Bear SG well, i didn't want to say anything... sounds like bonta wants a quick roll in the hay with no strings attached... not every dude is like that..
av98m SG Well, given where my previous approach has gotten me (nowhere), quick roll in the hay with no strings attached is looking pretty good right now Or I'll be doomed to, as I read in some blog, "dateless evenings and fuc kless nights"
Bontakun SG Oei... I tink I mis typed the part into leading you peeps thinking I am going for such stuffs. Oh well...
