To be honest with you, I've been kinda torn over this issue for
quite some time now. It does tear me apart.
However, one's a dream come true after more than six years of
sacrifice and it's what I really want to do and I'm not about to
give it up for any guy. 
And I don't want yet another long-distance relationship - have had
enough of those. I have decided to be very single, and very dumb -
if a guy likes me, he has to like me enough to let me know.
Otherwise, no-go!
There... I've just simplified my life! 