In this day and age (in S'pore context), don't think blind
obedience to the husband can work all the time. It has to be "obey"
for the right and reasonable things. And not because "to obey" is
part of the marriage bargain, but more like a personal choice to
"obey" out of love, and knowing it will make hubby happy (e.g. peel
prawns, cooking for hubby).
Similarly, the husband has to "obey" in certain things out of love,
care, and to make the wife happy (e.g. mop the floor, clean the
windows, answer tricky questions with "yes dear" 
).
Otherwise, it would become a case of unbalanced subservient
relationship which is not healthy.
