that is why compability is important. some women hate it when a
man thinks she should do housework, while other women think that
it's their duty to.
then there are some men who will always help, and some that will
never help.
so if we all "choose" well, then everyone would be happy.
but is it that simple?
u know this reminds me of a "list" that women (and i guess men too)
make containing qualities of their ideal man. one fine day, they
might meet such a man, only to find that while he fits the bill,
they have no feelings for him.
then how?
love is like that, it (could) make(s) u do the housework even when
u hate it how he expects u to.
by the same token, men could find it bo liow to teach a woman to
fly a kite, but if it makes her happy, i'll be down to marina south
in a jiffy! 
