paperflower, I hope you and your husband won't make any drastic
decisions now. Sometimes, when bad times hit couples, they just
need to sit and hang on tight, and wait it out, because the storm
will always pass by.
When two get together to live together, the first year or so is
usually the toughest because you have to adapt to each other's
living habits, quirks, mannerisms, etc.
But just keep at it. Men are sometimes really clueless... have you
told him up front what's really bothering you? Communication is so
important!
Feel free to talk to us here about it. We promise a listening ear.
