match making

margarita SG

if u r single still ..
will u opt for match making service (siang qin)
seems people now r more open .. is it? jus wondering ..

leo-kun SG

yes when ages is catching up with me...

Boo777 SG

If I'm at my wit's ends, yes. No harm making more friends.

fredex SG

Hmm... for fun, why not? I mean that's how I feel personally... Don't expect too much out of it... Take it as it comes, afterall, it is a good way of enlarging your social circle in a way...

But I was wondering what if that siang qin... then kanna your friend... Embarassed

leo-kun SG

you are right man no harm making more friends...

Fatum SG

so long as it’s not at one of those “buy-a-bride” businesses masquerading as match-making services these days ….. that’s so demeaning to the women …..

margarita SG

actually i think match making service help to save time for busy executive .. arranging for initial dates can be troublesome .. u free she not free .. she free u busy .. but many r shy .. wat if u mit yor colleague or yor friend find out ..

leo-kun SG

i think ok cos you are look for a live time partner ...not something else right..but the best is still through friends connection right.

Fatum SG

ermmm .... save time for busy executives ? ..... Love is not a transaction or an errand you know ..... Confused

margarita SG

wat i mean is .. too busy to even make the first date .. like u see tis gal u think u like but very busy wif work so no mood no time to call her, to test water .. whether she keen to go out, wat she think of u, she got bf or not, wat's her impression of u .. weekend comes n u finally got space to think of her but she got date already .. next weekend same thing n next .. then she got busy, need to travel .. after a while u forget about her n one day u recieve her wedding invitation ..

i like writing romance story liao .. Mr. Green

Gedanken SG

Uhhh, if you're too busy to get the ball rolling, won't you be too busy for everything that comes after it? Confused

AngelMissy SG

i think majority of the ppl r still shy joining such services. They give excuses like busy wif work, career first, waiting for the right girl/guy, wanna find a pretty/handsome one….friends will introduce etc. so by then they miss the boat, age catching up n they become desperate..

Gedanken SG

Yup. Whatever the reason, and whatever the context, there's only one thing to do: get off your butt and go do something instead of waiting for things to happen. Very Happy

margarita SG

sometimes u look around n cannot find anyone compatible .. won’t match making agency be a good place to go?

Fatum SG

a checklist of qualities shouldn't be a pre-requisite for love to happen i think .....

margarita SG

for love to happen quicker n easier .. Mr. Green

subarugal SG

Rolling Eyes
me too... Crying or Very sad

subarugal SG

but if u nv try u nv noe rite ?
who know you might meet that someone in the match making ?

me will do so if there is a need..
or i shld say i need one Laughing Embarassed

Mr. Green

subarugal SG

wooo.. always rem dnt grab food when u are hunger..
during hunger food we grab usually coz food poisoning Cool

Gedanken SG

Hey, whatever it takes!

The thing is that it really doesn't matter if you're signing up with a matchmaking agency, hitting the singles bars or keeping your eyes open whenever you go to the supermarket.

What does matter is that nothing's ever going to come to you if you sit still and wait. You have to go out there to get it. If going to a matchmaker is what it takes, who is anybody else to say something about that?