*ahem* who calling me?
frankly, given the shit i went thru, i think those whiney
youngsters had 9 lives also not enuff to die.... 
not tat i'm unsympathetic, deep down i am.... i myself went thru
those whining stage too... but tat was in my teens...
love is not measure by duration of time but degree of passion....
however, we are talking abt "love" not a crush, not admiration... u
get wat i mean?