What do you find the most challenging in a r/s?

last SG · 2006-08-17T13:31:58+00:00

The trust that will be hard to gain back especially after being betrayed of the trust that is placed upon each other. Skeptikality towards each other arises,...

alwaysdisturbed SG

yea, to each their own.

i will act according to my own principles.

shinta SG

family members are the most challenging part in my r/s

i can imagine myself smashing his brother's head with my keyboard every time he irritates teh hell out of me Very Happy

SGpork SG

thick n thin also tgt..
supporting each other

Wink Wink Wink

rainee SG

lolz Laughing

for me, it is more like my own family members...too restrictive, wan to stayover cannot, wan this cannot, wan that oso cannot Confused

SGpork SG

lol..shinta..u n his brother problem again

cute lei i find that he actually did add some colour..

Laughing

zheshi SG

Commumication and understanding is the most challenging in the relationship. Everyone enter a relationship hoping their steady would be what they expected. But mostly it not, so in the end it up to them to accpect their other part or change them.

SGpork SG

thanks goodness i got all the freedom i want..

Razz Razz Razz

but im restricting myself instead..

Rolling Eyes

alexkusu SG

most common would be communication

then maybe behaviour, after that maybe ur partner's friends, family members, etc

starblue SG

i think the most challenging thing for me in a r/s would be the toggling between my personal life and a life with him. i am a very private person, and i need a lot of space. and most guys i know don’t give that much needed space when they are in a rs with a girl.

alwaysdisturbed SG

means u are not ready to commit?

starblue SG

nope. i think committment and having space is different altogether. i can put in effort in maintaining a rs. but i still need my space.

besides, i don't believe that one will lose his/her own life when in a rs. i see that as kinda immature. i dunno about you, but i am not going to put my rs in the first priority slot. that's just me.

BadzMaro SG

then how can u say u have commitment ?

I say the hardest thing is to 'understand' the other person truly.

browniebaobao SG

I think it's to open him up and make him tell u his troubles..

sometimes that makes me helpless..

to love someone and see him so depressed in front of my eyes, yet i cant help him to release himself...

most men chose to keep things to themselves and not telling their girl.. bcos of their ego and also dun want their girl to worry..

starblue SG

what, to you, is committment?

in response to your statement, i believe that you should never strife to "truly" understand your partner. sometimes, when your guy/gal is undergoing some trouble, they don't want you to probe, or do anything. sometimes all they need is space.

NeverSayGoodBye SG

..... The most challenging thing in a relationship would be with a girl who is very outgoing in her social life. She likes to mix around and surround herself with lots of friends. The challenge is big when she got more guys' friend than girls' friend. The challenge is even BIGGER when she have some very close male friends. Be prepared to share with her group of males close friends if you are in this type of relationship.

.....From the outside, this type of girls looked free and easy. But in actual fact they guard their innocence very tightly. There will be lots of benefits if you are in this kind relationship, they can be very loyal, trustful and reciprocate your support. It's a big mountain to climb to know this type of girls, but the rewards are aplenty. Very Happy

NeverSayGoodBye SG

..... Hmm..when you said personal space is that you want to be alone doing your own stuffs or you still want to go out with your friends(girl/guy)?

black.S SG

u sure or not?dun really think so leh.Likewise if u had a lot of pretty and sexy gals around u,will u b loyal,trustful?ask urself Wink

NeverSayGoodBye SG

..... I agreed that to be in a relationship you need not to lose your self. But if you are not putting your relationship in first priority, wouldn't your boyfriend think that you don't love him that much? Very Happy

NeverSayGoodBye SG

..... That's why i had mention earlier, doesn't mean that i have lots of sexy girls around me i will be a chronic flirt. If i can singled out one of the girl out from these group of sexy girls to be my girlfriend, i will be loyal to her. Of course this girl must be very special, unique and stand out for me to stay loyal to her. She also must has lots of self conviction inorder for me to trust her fully. Very Happy

technoboy SG

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