in this case, there's only 2 main views; go for it/dont go for
it
and since u take 'dont go for it' to be the 'best' view, what other
options are there? 
ever heard of the chinese saying, 'bu zai hu tian chang di jiu, zhi
zai hu cheng jing yong you'. translated, it literally means one
cares not about eternity, for about the memories had
imagine this, u're starving and there's a little bit of food in
front of you; not enough to fill ur stomach, but better than
nothing
to eat, or not to eat, that is the question
