ToffeeClub1929 SG ok.. u got something about guys being sensitive? Anyway, what I was trying to put across is that some guys tend to be jumpy when dealing with certain issues. They may misinterpret certain actions or statements made by the lady, thus leading the guys to presume that she likes him.
ToffeeClub1929 SG Honestly, I find it quite impossible to prevent such incidents. You will find it very difficult to make every statement or action without leading them on. I guess the best way is for them to learn it the hard way. Though it may affect the relationship being working or friends, there is no solution to this never ending problem.
ToffeeClub1929 SG If you look at the bright side, it does compliment you in a way that you have quite a number of admirers... Good or bad, only you know
ToffeeClub1929 SG Well it is your choice, but the fact is that you cannot prevent others from changing your point of view
rainee SG aiya admirer only la...deal with them... I dun think it can get any worse from mine once upon a time ago...this guy(whom I dunno who is it until now) would call my house phone, waited for me to pick up and then not say anything...Then after a while, he will put down the phone.
starblue SG lolz.. i used to call this guy i like, but dunno what to say, so never say anything. and he knows it's me, so he didn't put down the phone.. so we were just there listening to each other's breathing... i'm wierd huh??
rainee SG lol why you all like to do that...I find it quite creepy leh to just hear each other's breathing...
starblue SG cos i shy mah... i dunno what to talk about with him mah... thenhe also never put down the phone so i thought liddat also nice lah... sometimes i wonder why i'm sooo stupid at that time...
rainee SG lol so weird...I tried going,"Hallo? Hallo?" A few times...but he never said anything...this went on for nearly a year! Until before I got here...then he sort of...gave up..