CoolMyth SG It seems to me both of you have striked a chord with each other. Chemistry if that is correct. But due to inexperience on both side, both of you don't know how to continue doing this and advancing further.
starblue SG how so?? you guys never even seen me before.. anyway, updates about the guy... i emailed him to tell him i still dun feel good about partnering with a guy i dun know and that i want t girl partner instead (i tot honesty is the best policy and refrained from lying that i already got another partner) then he reply and say even if we cannot do the project together, he hope we can still be friends. HOW CAN THAT BE?? if i'm not doing the project with him, why wud i want to meet up with him?? and if i dun wanna meet up, how can we be friends??? -_-" i hope i'm just being too sensitive here, but i feel stalked.. its like he knows who i am but i dun know him... -_-" WTF...
BadzMaro SG Remaining low profile and remaining unknown and in the shadows until the right time comes. Instead of being known… Grins… as the corner of his eye sparkles..
starblue SG seriously man.. i do not understand guys... who in their right minds will just go email a girl he's never seen and knows nuts about and tell her he wants to be friends.
CoolMyth SG This guy is really a bit too extreme. I won't do that either (Unless I'm sure the gal is a chio bu of course. ) But the real thing is that you really shall stay out of him. I don't need to "see" his looks but he's definitely a dangerous one. Don't reply to his e-mails anymore. Else he think you might be willing to be his friend even though you didn't say so. Just ignore him from now on.
starblue SG yeah... i didn't reply to that mail of his.. partly because i didn't want any more contact with him. but partly because i didn't know how to come across as polite yet saying that i dun wanna be his friend... that's just... too harsh i think...
CoolMyth SG Guys have this weird mindset. When the gal does not answer negatively and firmly, the guy will start to think there's still a chance, no matter how small it is. I don't think you are the type to shake away the other party. So, next best is to just ignore and maybe keep a good lookout for yourself when you attend the same lesson as this guy, even though you don't know who he is. Who knows, he might just suddenly appear in front of you. Be prepared.
